Hi guys~ It's been a while. I have been in sort of a funk since my rushed divorce and I was forced to increase my hours at work to full-time which lead me to being just wipped out in the eveing. My poor girls put up with a sleeping mom all the time. It's awful. Also, about the time of my second divorce, the father of my children and first husband decieded he can't pay child support. He is two months behind or four payments behind.
I need advice to prepare for my future. I have less then a few thousand in savings, I couldn't aford to keep the house I shared with my second husband and now my first husband is pulling this crap. I'm afraid by the time I'm out of savings, I won't make it each month if he doesn't pay on time. Has anyone faught a deadbeat dad successfully?
Also, my pain, exhaustion and memory issues have increased two fold since my return to full-time work and my question is... If I end up unable to handle the full-time work, can I fight for disability and still work? How does one afford to be out of work the suggested two years before they are elligible for help or am I wrong about that?
I can live with the fact that I may be single all my life, but I can't live with the fact that I can't survive each month while both of my ex-husbands have boats, multiple homes, snowmobiles, RV's, horses, 4 wheelers, new clothes, women and lives and I end up sick broke and alone. My children are mad at both of their so called Dad's and very angry at the situation. I have secluded them as much as possible, but at 12 and 14, they don't understand why we can't afor anything extra and Dad takes trips and purchases things while we aren't making it. I'd take on two jobs if I could, but my pain and pain killer have increased. I want to fight back, I just don't know how.
Anyone who has been through something like this and has helful advise... I'm all ears and very depressed. I'm going to look into counceling to get help with my mental state.
Thank you so much for any help on the subject.
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