I'm right there with you!! I used to enjoy cleaning house. I was known in the family as having a spotless home all the time! Now, I'm lucky to do half as much as I did before.
We sold our home last year and bought a double wide mobile home. Everyone was really surprised, but after 20 yrs. and having our children grown and gone, our old house was just too big and too much. I also couldn't keep up with it anymore because of my health problems.
It is wonderful not to worry about taxes, high utility bills, and keeping up with everything. Moving has made both of our lives so much easier and we love it! But, I still have problems keeping up like I should. I just don't have the energy to get it done!! On top of that, my hubby, most of the time thinks there is nothing wrong with me, but my head. Oh, that makes me so angry!
Anyway, wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I've come a long way in the last few years. It used to bother me if my home was not perfectly clean. Now I do what I can, when I can, & I try not to worry about it too much. If your hubby complains then I would tell him to do what he said he would do & keep it clean.
Only you know how much your body will take. Do what you can & stop worrying about the rest. It will still be there for you when you feel you can get to it. Maybe your husband will start helping you out more! Hope things get better for you & hang in there because I find that when I worry about something like that, it just makes me feel worse.
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