This is a tough one Chutzie. I know what it feels like to totally and completely love other people. I guess I would say you have to be real, let the other person see all sides of you, the good, bad and ugly. You have to open up so the other person can see clear to your soul and share everything about you with that person. I think that is what has worked for DH and I anyway. I don't think there is a subject that we haven't talked about over the years. It is harder for him to open up than it is me but he trust me with anything he tells me.
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