Wow, this sounds awful. I'm so sorry for what you're both going through. Fibro can be very painful, but then so can many other things. Wish I could help you but I'm no expert....probably others here are more versed in different conditions. I sure hope someone can find a way to help her soon.
Diagnosed: Fibromyalgia, Meniere's, elevated liver enzymes (why?), keloid scar tissue (from burn) on back, arthritis, scoliosis, lumbar disc damage, IBS, migraine
Meds: Nortriptyline, Clonazepam, Darvocet as needed
multivitamins, l-lysine, probiotics, magnesium, malic acid, calcium + vit. D, vit. C