We're going to have a bit of good natured fun...lol Sometimes other people, without intent, do things that drive us crazy! Maybe your SO always leaves the seat up but he was raised in a household of boys. Or your best friend knows you eat supper at 6 and always calls with 'urgent' news just as you sit down.....lol Or does your sister-in-law make belittling remarks about
the gifts you bring at Christmas? There's always one in every family.
To make this simple I've started an answer for you. Without mentioning real names nor being too mean, go ahead and share what irks you!
"I don’t mean to get knitpicky, BUT.. I have this friend/spouse/whoever who ( fill in the blank )
and it drive me crazy!
For me it's my daughter.
She's a sweet gal, a great mom and a pal to her friends BUT...every time she calls or comes over to visit all she does is complain! And not once but she tells me the same thing like 17 times! Gosh, I'd like to visit with her about
something cheerful and not have to listen to her bashing someone. I try to change the subject but she as born talking and hasn't stopped once in her 36 years. Don't you think she'd run out of breath now and then. I can put the phone down when she's talking, go make a cup of coffee, toast and sti back down and she has no idea I've been gone.
Maybe that's why her younger brother was so quiet. He couldn't get a word in edgewise!
Wheww...that feels better. ahhhh
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