I know that what you went through with your brother Dan was horrible for you. I was traumatized with my experience with my husband. Can you please email me when ever you read this. I would like to talk with you privately and get on the same page. Because I know that you are trying your darnest to help and you're getting frustrated. My email is in my profile.
Take care....thoughts and prayers......
When the going gets tough....the tough get going! Don't always know where I going but I get there anyways.