Candlelight, I can't believe your hubby! After 30 yrs., he treats you worse than a dog! Honey, you deserve 1/2 of everything he has, and I wouldn't feel guilty about taking it! You will need it! I would start divorce proceedings ASAP. Sorry, I don't mean to tell you what to do...but that really makes me mad!!
I'm glad you got an answer as to the arm and leg sensations. Let us know about the disk and if you will need surgery.
We got a heavy dose of Tropical Storm Fay here for the better part of 3 days. Lots and lots of rain and wind, trees down and much flooding. I'm in NE FL. I haven't been out since Tues.! Well, I did get to the mailbox yesterday during a break in the rain. I'm hoping I can get out to the store by Mon. My grocery supply is dwindling.
Take care and keep the faith!