My husband has passed

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okielady
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   Posted 1/26/2009 7:38 AM (GMT -7)   
A quick update to let you know that Jerry died this morning about 3:50.  He is no longer suffering.  Thank you all very much for your prayers and being a part of this forum.
Helen

5Joan5
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   Posted 1/26/2009 10:01 AM (GMT -7)   
Dear Helen,

I am sorry to hear your news, but glad his suffering is over.

Joan
Joan
 
Best friend is in ESLD, has HepC and cirrhosis. 


hep93
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   Posted 1/26/2009 11:19 AM (GMT -7)   

Okielady, my sincere condolences on your loss.  Now he is at peace.

When you are feeling up to it, please come back and continue to be a part of this forum.  Your experiences as a caregiver can be very helpful to others, and then Jerry's death will not have been in vain.

Hugs,


hep93
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"But that was yesterday, and I was a different person then."
Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland


NC Mountain Girl
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   Posted 1/26/2009 11:50 AM (GMT -7)   
You are in my prayers.

Pink Grandma
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   Posted 1/26/2009 5:31 PM (GMT -7)   
(((Helen))),

I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself....and come back to visit when you are able.........Lot's of thoughts and prayers...........
Pink Grandma
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pscwife
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   Posted 1/26/2009 9:30 PM (GMT -7)   
Helen,

I am so very sorry that you are going through this. My heart aches for you.

Get some much needed rest, take time to grieve and trust that God will give you the strength to rebuild your life once you are ready.

As a caregiver, we share a common bond. Know that you are loved and that we are all here for you to lean on.

Sincerely,

Penny

oldfriend
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   Posted 1/27/2009 2:44 AM (GMT -7)   
Helen,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you.
I am in the same situation, and my father is still fighting.
Please take care of yourself.
Shiva

frustrated_n_wv
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   Posted 1/27/2009 4:42 AM (GMT -7)   
Helen

I am so sorry to hear that Jerry has passed. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you,

Lucy

exhaused
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   Posted 1/27/2009 4:33 PM (GMT -7)   

Helen

I just want you to know that your husband was one of the first for me to post on the forum after his transplant.  He gave me that boost of hope I needed at the time.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Please take as much time as you need to heal after this loss.  You are in my prayers.

JoAnn


Butterflythree
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   Posted 1/27/2009 6:58 PM (GMT -7)   
Helen, My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so sorry that you have lost Jerry, but am also glad that he is no longer suffering and is in heaven free from the pain and suffering of this world.
Butterflythree
 
There is always hope!


bismyangel
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   Posted 2/3/2009 7:36 PM (GMT -7)   
I am sooooo sorry for your loss. may god carry you thru .
 
with all my prayers
bbismyangel2004

mer
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   Posted 2/4/2009 8:53 PM (GMT -7)   
Helen,

I am so sorry for your loss. You take care of you.....hugs and prayers coming your way!!!!

God Bless you!
Mer

sanorlie
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   Posted 2/5/2009 7:54 AM (GMT -7)   
My husband passed too;
 
My husband had hep c and we also went to the inferon and ribavirian; i don't which was worse the disease or the treatments; my mike passed away on Jan 31, 2009; never will forget the day or the time. We have one son and we both watched him go.....
miss him alot;

Pink Grandma
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   Posted 2/5/2009 9:15 AM (GMT -7)   

Hello Sanorlie and welcome to HealingWell.   Please accept my sincere condolences on your husband's passing.   Mine too, passed away in April of 2007 from ESLD.  So believe me,  I have a good idea on your feelings right now.  Hang in there....it's dark right now but just take it one day at a time and eventually you will begin to see the light at the end of the tunnel.  You are not alone in this  overwhelming grief......others here have experienced it too. 

This site helped me through it.........so you are invited to come visit anytime time you feel the need to.   I joined HealingWell about 5 months before my husband died.... I lurked for about 2 weeks just reading everyone's posts...when I finallly got up the nerve to post myself and someone answered my post......I actually cried.   Then after my husband died I just mostly lurked for another couple of months........Then I started posting again.....I found out that my experiences with dealing with ESLD, even though it was over, could still help others going through it.  Even though my husband lost his battle with it.....he hasn't died in vain......I am making sure of that. 

Take care......thoughts and prayers......   


Pink Grandma
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hep93
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   Posted 2/5/2009 11:02 AM (GMT -7)   
Sanorlie, I just wanted to welcome you to the forum and express my sincere condolences.  On this forum, PinkGrandma was the caregiver, while I am a patient...so we offer unique perspectives.  I know that she and other members of this forum can be a great support system for you, so please visit often.



hep93
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"But that was yesterday, and I was a different person then."
Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland


Butterflythree
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   Posted 2/5/2009 6:26 PM (GMT -7)   
Sanorlie, Welcome to the forum. I am so sorry that you have lost your husband and your son his father. I can only imagine how hard it has been. There are really a great bunch of people here that know how you feel. I hope you continue to visit us. I'll be praying for you.
Butterflythree
 
There is always hope!

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