Please pray for my dad

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oldfriend
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   Posted 1/29/2009 12:23 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi you all wonderfull people,
During the last few days a lot of thing happend to my dad. as some of you know, after 3 years of fighting with CIRRHOSIS.
3 months ago Doctors found a mass on his right lobe (liver cancer) and metastastic spine (bone cancer) that caused broken spine and dad couldn't walk any more. On saturday noon time another he couldn't move his right hand and on sunday morning he couldn't talk any more. shakehead cry cry
We rushed him to hospital and after a CT, they found a bleeing in his right side of his head. cry cry cry (they don't know exactly what is it.A Tomur or just stroke or Liver function PTT)
Right now he is in CCU, his body fight, thank god he is in no pain, his kidney and heart works perfect. The problem is that, he is aware of his surronding and he know what is going on, he is going in to depression. sad sad sad sad
Just looking at is very heartbreaking. He look sad and sometimes he is crying. Please Please pray for him that GOD HELP HIM.
The feed him by a tube in his nose. I really don't know what is going on with him. they only thing that i know he is giving up, The Doctors said that we have to wait and to see if the bleeding stops, maybe he can talk and he can move his hand again.
I don't know what can i do for his depression, He was the guy he loved to eat and talk but right now, he can't even enjoy this.
His situation is very heart breaking.
Hug
Shiva

NC Mountain Girl
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   Posted 1/29/2009 7:28 AM (GMT -7)   
I am so sorry that you and your family is going through this. You are right, it is heartbreaking, and my heart goes out to you all. You will remain in my prayers. Hang in there.

Pink Grandma
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   Posted 1/29/2009 7:43 AM (GMT -7)   
(((Shiva))), I am so sorry. I know it is a very stressful time. We all will be praying for him and you. Hang in there. You are a wonderful daughter. And your father knows this. Just keep telling him how much that you love him.

Thoughts and prayers...........
Pink Grandma
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hep93
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   Posted 1/29/2009 1:25 PM (GMT -7)   

{{{{{{{{Shiva}}}}}}}}  What a heart-breaking situation.  I think anyone would feel depressed with all that your dad has going on.  I'm sure he realizes he is getting worse and not better.  Is his pain under control?  We will certainly continue praying for God's care for you, your dad, and your family.  As PG suggested, just keep telling your dad that you love  him.

Hugs,


hep93
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Butterflythree
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   Posted 1/29/2009 7:04 PM (GMT -7)   
Shiva, I am so sorry that your dad is doing badly. I will continue to pray for you both.
Butterflythree
 
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oldfriend
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   Posted 1/29/2009 11:30 PM (GMT -7)   
Thanks everybody,
the good news is that he is in no paing. I really thankfull for that.Yesterday when i was in Hospital when he saw us (my mom and i) he started to cry and make some noise, nurse came to us and she asked what have to done to him he was so calm and didn't do anything. I know he wants to come home and to be with his family.
I am so helpless and don't know what to do. When every i leave the hospital, I just say GOD please be with him and help.
His face is so calm, and he just looking at us, I know that he is aware of his surrounding.
Thank you guys again
Hugs
Shiva

hep93
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   Posted 1/30/2009 1:15 PM (GMT -7)   

Of course he gets emotional when he sees you and your mom!  That's a GOOD thing.  I know you would like to have him at home and he probably would like to be there, you could not provide the 24/7 care he needs at this time.  I'm so glad to hear that he is not in pain.

Thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family.


hep93
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"But that was yesterday, and I was a different person then."
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Butterflythree
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   Posted 1/30/2009 4:35 PM (GMT -7)   
Shiva, I am glad to hear that your father is not in pain. I am so sorry for all that you and your family are going through. I know it must be so hard watching your father going through this. He is lucky to have you there for him. I will continue to pray for you.
Butterflythree
 
There is always hope!

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