she has been hospitalised many times through the last three years. a few times i nearly lost her. her main problem aprt from her drinking is that she keeps falling and hurting her self. she fell twice when i was on holiday, splitting her head open and cutting her nose. she fell again last saturday ended up having to go to hospital for stitches at her eye. then last night, i think she burst her head open, burst her eye again, looks like she fractured a cheekbone as it was swollen and has damaged her hand that was affected by the stroke. her hand is black, that is all i could see. i phoned round the hospitals and she was admitted last night, think she is getting out tomorrow.
i am going to write each of them a letter explaining how i feel.
i have been told several times i should have my mother sectioned as clearly he cannot keep her safe.
she will only know what he told her, so god knows what she is thinking. i cannot play these games any more. he is venting his anger at me..
she has loads of return appointments stroke clinic, epilepsy clinic, osteoporosis, eye clinic, heptologist etc she never attends any of them, so we do not knowknow the real extent of her damage.
i truly believe that her partner has proved he cannot cope. but my hands are tied.
my husband is standing by any decision i make with regards to my mum, my head is fuzzy i cannot think straight or concentrate on anything. so maybe i should stay clear for a while
all i keep thinking is i went there to help there and ended up not doing anything for her.