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worriedgirl
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   Posted 7/6/2010 11:08 AM (GMT -7)   
i just wanted to stop in and say hi and let you know how i am doing. i do stop in time to time and read posts but have been busy with planning my daughters bday and i needed a break from my feelings. i know that sounds stupid but coming here helps but it also kept me thinking of my mom and her struggles and i needed to place my feelings in a sort. im sorry.
 
i am doing well though. i am not mourning my mom anymore but i do still miss her during the holidays and special days. for example my birthday and my daughters birthdays are coming up and this will be my first year without her here to wish us a happy birthday and it is hard but now when i think on her i do have a smile on my face. so that is how i am doing. how are you guys doing.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are
 
"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.


arneeb
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   Posted 7/6/2010 11:18 AM (GMT -7)   
glad to see you.. I miss Mike every moment of every day... the anniversaries will be tough.. holidays ... etc.. glad to see you Sandi
There is no pit so deep that He is not deeper still... Corrie Ten Boom


hep93
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   Posted 7/6/2010 1:29 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi, WG! We have served our purpose if you are getting on with your life. But I'm so glad you stopped by and posted. I also saw your post to a new member. So glad you are doing well and hope both you and your daughter have very enjoyable birthdays! Don't be a stranger!

Hugs,
Connie
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Pink Grandma
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   Posted 7/6/2010 9:36 PM (GMT -7)   
Hello Worriedgirl, Glad to hear you are doing well. The first year is the toughest. It's past year 3 for me and I can't believe that my husband has been gone so long. I still get sad sometimes, but it's not nearly so devastating as it was that first year. I get depressed even thinking about that first year.

Now I am working 9+ hours a day plus commuting 2 hours, so my life mostly revolves around work and sleep. I don't have time to get into much trouble......but it seems to find me anyways.

Take care.........and thanks for the update...........thoughts and prayers.......
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allie2631
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   Posted 7/7/2010 2:54 AM (GMT -7)   

Hello Worried girl

glad to hear that you are getting on with your life. There is nothing else for it, your daughter is your future it is great you are managing to focus on her and yourself. you will of course always miss your mum, I feel a large gap in my life where my wee gran was and also my own mum. I can't believe it has been three years now, since my mum first started to go into hospital with serious complications of her liver disease, no way did i think she would still be her , she is just bodily but in the mind I lost her along the way. I feel as if all i do is repeat myself, I am getting fed up listening to my own story, saying the same things over and over and nothing changes. I want her pain to end. This has been the most horrible thing you can imagine happen to your mum and it is been slowly stretched out. So I like you in a way have taken that wee step backwards, it still hurts, but I am really tring to focus on myself, doing a lot of exercise and running trying to destress and it is working. I feel as if I will never get over what is happening,soit is nice to hear you are getting on with your life. good tohear from you again


worriedgirl
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   Posted 7/13/2010 3:27 PM (GMT -7)   
yesterday was one of those days i wish my mom was here to talk to. yesterday while cleaning i somehow knocked the vent off the wall and it fell and hit me in the head and my girl in the forehead. so we had to both go to the er and she had to get glued in 3 spots but they were small and she was ok yet everyone seems to blame me, except the hospital and my workers. my hubby and his friends all think that i am careless. ugggggg it was an accident and i did get hurt too. his mom knows it was accident too. my hubby is not mad anymore but he was yesterday. i would have loved for my mom to be here cause i know she would  have comforted me instead of being angry.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are
 
"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.


hep93
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   Posted 7/13/2010 4:30 PM (GMT -7)   

WG, I'm glad you and your daughter are okay.  Sometimes people act angry when they are really just concerned.  That's what it sounds like your hubby was doing.

Hugs,

Connie


hep93
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"But that was yesterday, and I was a different person then."
Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland


worriedgirl
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   Posted 7/22/2010 9:00 AM (GMT -7)   
hello, i am saying today is a good day. i have two kid free nights away and i am on a well needed vacation from work. my daugthers party went great but no one from my side of the family showed up. oh well their loss. i am feeling good just a little lonely today. i wish my mom was here so i can go see her but hey she is happy in heaven with my grandparents and i feel her watching over me. i cant seem to stay away from this site as i feel and hope t hat i can help others by sharing my moms story and giving advice(i hope good advice)
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are
 
"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.


hep93
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Date Joined Jul 2005
Total Posts : 12014
   Posted 7/22/2010 10:45 AM (GMT -7)   
WG, enjoy your rest and your peace and quiet! Do something for YOU (a massage or pedicure maybe?)

It's been rather slow here lately, probably from people being outdoors more and also taking vacations.

Hugs,
Connie
hep93
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"But that was yesterday, and I was a different person then."
Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland


arneeb
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   Posted 7/22/2010 1:42 PM (GMT -7)   
I thnk it's important to stay and help others in their journey as one can... as God gives u strength.. it's nice to see ur smilin face.. tongue
There is no pit so deep that He is not deeper still... Corrie Ten Boom

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