Thank you so much, lerie. I am sorry you are so ill. My husband is doing his best to keep his irritability to a minimum and we know it will be over in 7 months, so that helps. He quit taking the Zoloft after reading an article that the reason antidepressants seem to work is mainly the placebo effect, and he didn't like the way they made him feel. He is on a new shot for anemia, and that seems to help with the fatigue. Another thing that has helped is having him go visit his family for 2 weeks over the holidays, and I'll be taking a vacation in March. Too much togetherness sometimes makes us get on each other's nerves, too.
Take care, lerie, and I wish you all the best. Thanks for taking the time to respond.