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Chaya I am sorry you have to deal with jerks. Most people don't have a clue what we go through in a day and lots don't care to know. I have family members who think I am faking. I was in a car accident five years ago and was injured quite badly. I ended up with a condition called RSD which is as bad as Lupus is and it has left my leg bent and out of shape. I walk with a big lip, only slowly getting better with the help of a wonderful foot doctor, and still these family members tell people I am faking. Then they tell me that if I am faking I am the one that has to live with that on my conscience. Well I say to heck with these people, if they don't know me better then that by now then I don't need them in my life bringing me down when I am trying so desperatly hard to get up.
Keep your head up Chaya, don't let them beat you down, they will try really hard to do that. Be a bigger person even though it takes a lot of energy to be the bigger person sometime. ((((CHAYA))))