Trust me, everyone here knows your frustration. The best website I have found for information is www.lupus.org. They have a ton of info you can read about lupus, and also have a free e-news letter you can sign up for. They also have a list of books that are good to read so you can educate yourself. I just wrote down the names and went to check them out at the library. They were very helpful, and prompted me to ask questions I never thought of asking. Sometimes, doctors just don't want to tell you things because they think you can't handle or understand what they are telling you. Don't be afraid to demand answers. You should be able to have another child, but you will be closely monitored. I had a beautiful girl after I found out about my diagnosis. As for feeling good again, noone can give an exact answer for that. It depends on you taking care of yourself and what meds your doctor prescribes for you. Good luck with your next appointment, and let us know how it went.
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