I would like to thank everyone! I did find out about the spoon theory and have sent it to him by email and my parents and close family as well. My mom read it and she said it did a great job explaining things! Your knowledge and suggestions were great and well apperciated! Thanks Again. my husband has seemed to understand better after reading the spoon theory. Yesterday after he read it he helped put supper away and has been asking what he can do to help a lot more. I am hoping that it sank in and that he continues to help and offer a helping hand. He doesn't understand the pain and why it comes so fast but I am trying my best to explain it to him when it does come and why like for the cold etc.
I am glad that I found this for after I posted my lost one I felt a big relief lift off my shoulders.... it felt great to talk to people who understand or even read what others were going through and understand what they were saying.
He has come to one meetings but the specialist I am currently seeing is kind of hard to understand and he is not use to people like that so I think he was a little timid to ask any questions. I am going to a new one soon and I am hoping that if/when he goes again he will be more willing to ask questions. It may also help to that the new specialist will be a male doctor. We will see after the new year when I go and get the blood work done.
Post Edited (skysthelimit) : 12/5/2009 10:01:14 PM (GMT-7)