Hi Veronica - You know, it's our pride that makes it hard for us to ask for help. I was struggling to get stupid little things done that, prior to getting sick were not even a chore. I would push myself to the point of being miserable.
One day I thought enough is enough and said "HELP"...lol
I now get my husband to do a lot for me - bring the laundry downstairs, get bags from the truck - anything so I can preserve the little energy that I have! I've even started buying premade meals etc to lighten the load in that area as well.. it's all helped. Needing help is just that - a need!!!