Hi Kasey(((hugs))), I know you are frustrated. While this is all fairly new to me I do know that it is not unusual for your labs to be all over the place. My ANA continues to be 1:2560 and sometimes I feel like crap and sometimes I don't. My sed rate is up and down. Depending on flares. I know several people here have had both poss and neg ana's. Plus you can have +ana and not have lupus. It's like your doctor said it's can go all over the place. You can also go into remission. However if you are feeling yucky than I doubt that is the case. I hope that the doctor will at least give you meds to deal with the symptoms and you start feeling better.
Hang in there