Hi BHK. I'm sorry you are having so much pain. That sounds terrible. I had endometriosis when I was 26 years old. I lost a little weight but I'm not even convinced that was the cause. Frankly I didn't have a clue anything was wrong. Once in a blue moon I could have what I can only discribe and what felt like a blister POP up inside me. It took my breath away from a breif moment and it would be gone. but I'm talking about maybe once a month that would happen. The only reason I found out about it was because my doctor asked when my last pap was and it had been a long time. That wasn't even why I went to the doctor. Anyway all he had to do was visual exam because it was so bad he could see it without a biopsy. If I had not had the hysterectomy immidiately they only gave me a year to live. So in my case I had no missed periods or cramps or anything to give me a clue. it wasn't until after the surgery they did the biopsy and found it had become cancer in two places. Anyway the problems you are having don't sound anything like my experience but you really need to get to a doctor and see about a pap smear. I know two people who died because they didn't get one until it was to late. One was my grandmother. I'm not really understanding why you were getting the hysterectomy or why your doctor wanted you to waitso I can't say much about that. I just hope you take care and get some answers as soon as possible.