Gee Spaztik: I dont know where to start. I have been suffering from mold-injury since 2004 and it is a very complicated issue to say the least. I would not concern myself right now with the lease, repairs,etc. but try to find another place to go especially if they are going to remediate. You do not want to be in there, trust me. Also, I would patch the hole that you have made to keep the toxins out and spreading if possible. You mention your husband being lazy, I know this may sound funny, but lack of motivation is a symptom of living in mold. Here are a couple of web sites that will tell you all you need to know. The second one is a doctor and lab here in Dallas that can test you if you need proof if it comes to litigation. Good luck and please at least go stay with a friend or in a hotel for a week or so and see if some of your symptoms subside. Its a tough journey, I have been there...
CG: Hope it okay that I put the web sites on here to help her. Dowa