Sometimes I find that parents dont know what to do and that can come off as them not caring OR making you feel like what you are feeling is NOT real.
Now that I am a mother I can understand how much you dont want your child(ren) to hurt. Try to talk to them about what is happening and do so when you are not in the most pain, sometimes I find that when I am in so much pain I am not speaking logically and others can't really grasp what is going on without my emotions getting in the way!
I'll be thinking about you. Let us know how you are doing!