Your post makes me so mad!! What the heck are doctors thinking?! I think you need to remind that doctor that medicine is still a consumer affair. You have the right to move on and find a new one. DO THAT. You might want to follow up with this doc as you have paid your dues (literally)and get your medical records (they are yours). Tell your soon-to-be-former-doctor doctor the reason you won't be back then start your search. You can call the offices and ask to speak to the doctor before you make an appointment. If they won't call you back.....move on. You may have to ask for an in person interview. Ask the receptionist how far ahead most appointments usually book and how long the typical wait is on appointment days.
You have gotten excellent advice from Sunny and Rhonda. Remember that many doctors can give you the attention and treatment you deserve and they may not be specialists. I have had members here that are very happy just going to a PCP and getting all their MS needs met there. If your MS is reasonably stable or very slow progressing, that may be the way to go.
I wish you the very best of luck....please post back as to how it is all going.
My husband and I had the same exact experience but this was all while I was waiting for my diagnosis. Once I got the news that I had MS (yes this neuro was also highly recommended) I couldn't get any info from them. I had to beg to get my rebif prescription. In fact rebif bugged the office for me and got the prescription and gave me more info than I got from the doctors office. When I was having trouble walking, I had his assistant tell me that if the doctor felt it was important they would call me back. I never got the results of my last MRI from that office. I called my regular doctor and they got me in within a week to someone else who is wonderful. She reviewed all my records and their office calls me back within several hours on concerns. You have to fight this darned disease, you shouldn't have to fight the doctors office too! Hang in there and find someone else. I am so sorry about your anniversary. The good thing is it sounds like you have a wonderful husband with great support. Keep us posted.