Hi every one tanku all for ur welcome messages. i'm feeling better and it's been 5 weeks since my second surgery. i'm able to walk about the house and make stuff to eat. i hav alot of help from family as u know. My sista Elisha has gone to Pkistan for a holiday and shes loving it. we hav a family wedding there and all my family has gone. my mom has cancelled cos she wanted to be here with me, i'm glad i was at home when everyone went this way they know i'm at home. i still have the fone calls asking if i'm really o.k.
i also have one of my sisters here to help she is Elisha's twin.
u all must know wat i went thru, if i went thru the details it would take ages. but all i can say is God gave me a second chance. the night of my second surgery wen they had to take the infectin out, they called my husband, sista and brother and said that they were keepin me asleep for 24hrs and if she wakes up then thats good but there is a chance i would die.
my husband told me that he couldn't speak, it was like something had hit him.
but all is well, still got fluid on my right lung, so i get breathless but at least i'm home with the kids.
my husband is off to pakistan with my two older children as it's his brothers wedding.
the surgeon foned today an said i could fly out and as much as i would love to, i can't risk anything.
as u know i also have a weird stoma the surgeon said cos they couldn't pull any more of my small bowl out, it used to leak all the time, and know i have found a bag that stays for 2-3 days, even though i'm sore i'm grateful that it dosen't leak.
sorry got to go my daughters callin.
p.s praying how r u doing , i'm so glad ur surgery went well.
luv u all