I can't really offer you any advice since I don't have an ostomy, but your post puzzled me. I didn't want to believe that anybody here would intentionally ignore any posts. I went back and looked at your other posts and they do have replies, so I'm confused. I did notice that you didn't have a subject line on one of them and one had what looked like a poll that might have accidently been added. I'm sure you'll get some replies. Take care.