Crohn's and cancer?! Yikes you got dealt a bad hand.
I totally agree about the pant thing.....cannot possibly wear them high but too low I'm worried the bag might show if my shirt rides up. I was originally told I would have a permanent illeostomy, but after later consultation with a specialist, she said she will be able to reverse it.
What kind of chemo did you have? The one I am having has awful side effects....can't drink anything cold, touch anything cold.....awful. Did your hair fall out? Have had 3 treatments so far and some hair thinning.