Ya'll are being a HUGE help!! I really appreciate ya'll talking me through this...
I guess yesterday was just all a big shock. It was nothing of what I expected to hear going into his office.. and the rectal prolapse was a suprise to me. As I said before, I had just assumed they were internal hemmorhoids..
I guess I just need to have faith, and I need to trust my surgeon. I know they wouldn't suggest a surgery if it didn't have some kind of success rate. And that's why he is adament against the TC, because he thinks it will just be avoiding the actual problem and not give me the relief that I need... So, all in all, what it comes down to is that I get the rectal prolapse surgery and see what happens when I recover from that. Who knows? Maybe it will resolve all my problems, and I sure hope it does.. But even if it doesn't, well then we'll know and my surgeon will realize a TC is the thing to do. As much as another surgery would be painful and inconveinent, atleast that option will always be there if things get worse.
I just need to stay positive. Help is help, right? Its better than not getting any assistance or resolution at all.