Im only 17 with no child or husband so its a little different with me but I know how you feel! Im not going to school or work right now..I would go to work but moms not letting me until I go back to school and Im not going back until I get my reversal. And since I stay at home all the time bc Im not doing anything, when I DO go somewhere my mom and dad get mad! Which is ridiculous because like you said, they should be happy that im feeling good enough to get out and go somewhere. But just give it time and let your mom know that your feeling a lot better since the surgery. I feel like an amateur because im so young and kinda feel stupid trying to give someone older advice. Just talk to your mom and husband. I think every relationship whether its your mom sister brother or husband is based on trust and communication. And pray about it. God will help you through anything! Hes truely amazing and will answer your prayers in ways you cant even imagine
Good Luck with everything!