I found something I LOVE!!! I purchased a few tighter fitting stretchy, silky feeling tanks from Wal-Mart the other day. I absolutely adore how they keep my accessory flat and I started tucking the bottom of it in my panties...weird at first but easily accepted.
Anyway, wearing those amazing tanks have improved my self-image tremendously! The area around my stoma is finally not in excrutiating pain, so I can start wearing pants closer to my waist area. It's awesome! I actually wore my pants directly on my stoma today and it was fine!
I am so EXCITED!!!