Post Edited (SocalJohn) : 9/1/2009 12:14:27 AM (GMT-6)
06/05/2007 - STARR procedure
colonic inertia w/pelvic floor dysfunction
08/16/2009 - total colectomy w/ileorectal anastomosis
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Thanks everyone foryour support.....
I cried last night, although not worth it, uncontrolled. It angers me the lack of empath in some people and especially people who have no idea whats its like to go through anything like we do each and everyday. The sad part is he is married....and has a child. I feel bad for her.....and him. I do not know what his underlying motives were, but I was supposedly an easy target. My husband was so hurt to see me hurt...I know he loves me and so does everyone in my life bag or not. I am the same person.....and most who do not know me would never know I have one unless I chose to tell them.
Thank you for all your kind words and support. You all mean so much to me and your words are so sincere.
Again....thank you all for your kind words and support. I was tearing as I read so many of your responses. I am trying to figure out if I can file a grievance. The problem is last June I came over to work for a private oncology company. I am still contracted as an employee for the hospital he works for, but technically I work for a different company. I just happen to give chemo two days as a contracted employee to the patients of that hospital. So....I am not sure it would matter if I said anything or not?? He is leaving our hospital for Chicago and I am very happy about that. The staff I work for was shocked as I told them today what happened. We work in such a loving and empathetic environment caring for cancer patients day in and day out. he is the director of pharmacy across the street at the main campus and just happened to be inquiring about some medications that our satellite pharmacy had, so I am sure he felt ok to say whatever he wanted to me....he wasnt at his place of work...technically.
I am going to try and get to the bottom of what I can file, I just hope he never does this to anyone else. I am having my stoma looked at for the fifth or sixth time tomorrow by the stoma nurses. My skin breakdown and changing bags 1-2 times in 24 hrs has taken over this life of mine and now I have a fungal infection on my skin. They do not think they can do anything about the stoma, but are going to try and sooth some of the symptoms.
Thanks again for all your love, ((hugs)), and support.
The pharmacist I currently work with found out what was said to me and an email was written in regards to the situation. He came over today in attempt to apologize to me. He was told as the clinical director or anyone in the medical field he had gone way to far and that actions could be taken if he were to stay here in this facility. My manager was here when he came to apologize and asked if was comfortable. I let him apologize, but gave him nothing more. He tried and tried to tell me he was joking, that I was a beautiful person, blah blah. The damage was already done. Thanks again for all your support. Maybe this will save someone from his wrath in the future. I gave my pharmacist a big hug and started crying. I thanked him for sticking up for me and supporting me. He wnted me to be sure if he was here that day it would have been taken care of sooner and that not one person here thinks that way of me. Love you all. ((HUGS))