Ostofresh --- check out this website and ask for a sample. It works great for me. Been using it for years. Not cheap, but made for ostomies.
Slice - what products are you using? Ever use stomahesive paste, or stomahesive powder? The powder helps to stop the seeping sores before you apply the wafer (Convatec products) I haven't had to use it in years, but it worked when I needed it. MY stoma shrunk and I didn't realize it, and of course, didn't make the opening of the flange on the wafer small enough - hence, sore skin. The powder really helped clear it up.
Awwww now see how much more fun that would have been if we were in some chat room. You could be raggin' on me in real time.......sorta
I had Amey building a wall of marshmellow in a circle. Spreading the peanut butter inbetween the marshmellows. Than makign another level. HUGE wall around the stoma. NOTHING WILL GET OUT