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Marry R
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   Posted 9/7/2007 2:09 PM (GMT -6)   
I have recently come out of a relationship. Decided to start going out a little but around here the Night Clubs have "searches". I was wondering if there is a descreat way of being searched by the female bouncers before entering the club. Has anyone had a similar concern or know about this?
I have had an Ostomy for 4 years now. Enjoying life and being thankful for all I have. Hope to mak a few more friends. Always here for advice. I am also on http://www.ostodate.com. I have recently come out of a long term relationship and hope maybe I can find someone special.


Glad Bag
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   Posted 9/7/2007 2:25 PM (GMT -6)   
well, i'm a dude here....but in my experience, usually they don't feel up the girls so much as the guys....

i have never thought of that....but i go to the same club(s) over and over and know the bouncers..

maybe you could whisper to the bouncer / doorman that you need to talk privately for a second....and warn them that you have a pouch attached for medical reasons....

or just say....trust me....you don't want to push too hard on that spot.....

where do live? if it's in LA, i could tell you about some places that don't even have a doorman or check id....and are cooler than any other spot anyway :-) :-) yeah yeah
"All we need is love....love is all we need"


Marry R
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   Posted 9/7/2007 2:35 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi.. Thanks for the reply.. I appreciate it very much.

I actually live in Derby (England).. and here women get searched (by women bouncers) also as there have been a few stabbings lately.
I have had an Ostomy for 4 years now. Enjoying life and being thankful for all I have. Hope to mak a few more friends. Always here for advice. I am also on http://www.ostodate.com. I have recently come out of a long term relationship and hope maybe I can find someone special.


Glad Bag
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   Posted 9/7/2007 2:55 PM (GMT -6)   
yeah....yur club scene is supposed to be more hip than LA too.....

good luck with going out and having fun.....

i think as long as you drain/vent your puch before getting searched they may not even feel it..

i checked the ostodate site....only one girl in California on there.....oh well...i sent her a "Hello"
"All we need is love....love is all we need"


Marry R
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   Posted 9/7/2007 4:43 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi and thanks for all your advice.........

Glad you joined...

scool  
I have had an Ostomy for 4 years now. Enjoying life and being thankful for all I have. Hope to mak a few more friends. Always here for advice. I am also on http://www.ostodate.com. I have recently come out of a long term relationship and hope maybe I can find someone special.

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