squirting during orgasm

Do you squirt a little urine during orgasm?
2
Yes, every time. - 11.8%
1
I dribble throughout the sex act and squirt during orgasm. - 5.9%
4
Not if I pee first! - 23.5%
10
No, dribbling during orgams is not an issue. - 58.8%

 
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Highwheel
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Date Joined Feb 2009
Total Posts : 13
   Posted 3/1/2009 10:15 PM (GMT -6)   
As per my signature, my surgery was 1/22. Since then I've had a number of orgasms and each time have squirted a little (urine) in the process. In reviewing threads regarding the subject posted here, I have read that some of you do the same and work around it. My questions is, Is this the general act for most or just a few of you? Is it permanent?

Thanks for your input.

Highwheel,

Age at surgery - 52
PSA - 4.3, T1C
Biopsy - -11/17/08
2 of 8 cores positive
Gleason Score 3+3=6
da Vinci method surgery - 1/22/09
Confined, no margins
Continent - 2/11/09

Post Edited (Highwheel) : 3/1/2009 8:20:00 PM (GMT-7)


honestguy
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Date Joined Feb 2009
Total Posts : 18
   Posted 3/2/2009 7:50 AM (GMT -6)   

Hi Highwheel

I don't know if the squirting of urinie is a constant norm after prostrate surgery. I had robotics on 1/8/09 and have had a number of orgasms also but only squirted urine once. My main problem is not being continent. In fact, instead of improvement I am seeing the condition becoming worse. I guess each of us experience different situations after surgery and nothing is norm. Hopefully, additional input to your question will be provided by other members.

Take care

Joe S.

Highwheel said...
As per my signature, my surgery was 1/22. Since then I've had a number of orgasms and each time have squirted a little (urine) in the process. In reviewing threads regarding the subject posted here, I have read that some of you do the same and work around it. My questions is, Is this the general act for most or just a few of you? Is it permanent?

Thanks for your input.

Highwheel,

Age at surgery - 52
PSA - 4.3, T1C
Biopsy - -11/17/08
2 of 8 cores positive
Gleason Score 3+3=6
da Vinci method surgery - 1/22/09
Confined, no margins
Continent - 2/11/09

Joe S     Age 60
 
7/08 - PSA results showed 3 times higher than normal
8/08 - Biopsy  6 of 12 positive on right side only
1/09 - Robotic surgery. Lab results showed positive on both sides 3+4=7
2/09 - 1st PSA test reported .1
Leakage continues during the day but seems to be gradually lessening. Bladder control during the nighttime hours was never a problem.
Semi erection can be achieved with stimulation but not rigid enough for intercourse.
 
Cialis (20mg) every other day for 6 weeks
Pump - 3 times daily
 
Have not started using the Cialis or pump at this time. Currently purchasing and will begin routine next week.


Bootheel
Regular Member


Date Joined Oct 2007
Total Posts : 300
   Posted 3/2/2009 9:58 AM (GMT -6)   
I had a lot of urine during foreplay and orgasm using the VED with a ring or with injections.  I am a litle over a year out now and getting 85% erections with Viagra.  The urine has stopped almost completely with the Viagra induced erections.  I think it just takes a lot of time and patience.  I did kegels since RP so maybe that will help.

Age 65
Diagnosed 10/12/07
PSA 6.3
Biopsy 18 core samples, 2 positive <5%
Stage T1a Gleason 6 (3+3)
LRP  1/29/08
Post-op
Gleason 7 (3+4)
1 positive margin (.3cm)
T2C
4/16/08- Started Bi-mix injections 
5/15/08- 1st Post-Op PSA 0.07 Undetectable
8/11/08 -2nd Post-OP PSA 0.02 Undetectable
8/15/08- No more pads as of today  Whoopee!!!
11/13/08- 3rd post-op PSA 0.02 Undetectable


Purgatory
Elite Member


Date Joined Oct 2008
Total Posts : 24259
   Posted 3/2/2009 10:52 AM (GMT -6)   
Mine is a bit more confusing to me, biology and anatomy weak areas of understanding. After having a strong and lengthy "O" last night, the entire end of my manhood was leaking with a clear sticky fluid. It was not urine, never had have that problem so far. I am wondering if it was pre-semen. I understand, partly, that the source is from the Cowper's Glands, never heard of them before, and was wondering if they would normally be removed in prostate surgery, or not be able to connect to the urethra anylonger. Told you, this techincal body stuff is beyond me. Obviously it wasnt ejaculate, that is not physically possible, I know. But so far, this is the first I have experienced this in any post-surgery "O". Like I mentioned above, it was unusally long and intense, not the mild, distant "O" I had experienced up to now. Anyone else get this?
Age 56, 56 at DX, PSA 7/7 5.8, 7/8 12.3
3rd Biopsy 9/8 Positive 7 of 7 cores pos, 40-90%, Gleason 7
Open RP surgery 11/14/8, Right nerves saved, 4 days hospital, staples out 11/24/8, 5th cath out on 1/19/9
Post-surgery Pathlogy Report:Gleason 3+4=7, pT2c, 42 grm, tumor 20%, Contained in capsular, clear margins, clear lymph nodes 
First PSA Post Surgery   2/9 .05
 
 


James C.
Veteran Member


Date Joined Aug 2007
Total Posts : 4453
   Posted 3/2/2009 11:42 AM (GMT -6)   
David, your experience match's mine, as far as the Cowpers Gland. I started getting that a few months ago. I was confused, as I understood that they were removed with the rest of the package, but evidently not for some of us. I get it now during prolonged foreplay, just like before and as an added benefit after orgasm. Go figure!
James C. Age 62
Co-Moderator- Prostate Cancer Forum
4/07 PSA 7.6, referred to Urologist, recheck 6.7
7/07 Biopsy: 3 of 16 PCa, 5% involved, left lobe, GS 3/3=6
9/07 Nerve sparing open RRP- Path Report: GS 3+3=6 Stg. pT2c, 110gms, margins clear
16 mts: ED- 50 mg Viagra 3X week, pump daily,Trimix .35ml 2X week continues
PSA's: .04 each 3 months


Purgatory
Elite Member


Date Joined Oct 2008
Total Posts : 24259
   Posted 3/2/2009 11:59 AM (GMT -6)   
James, your reply gave me some re-assurance. I understand the pre-semen is suppose to clear the urethra of any urine traces and anything else, so that when the ejaculate is released, its clear sailing. I never thought of them as being two different things before from two different places. Last night's episode, I would have say, though still way different from pre-surgery, was a whole lot deeper feeling and more intense, as if it wasnt' being diluted by ejaculate (I know that doesnt make sense to say that), just trying hard to describe, and the duration was 2x or 3x longer then anything pre-surgery. Starting to make me think I could get real use to this "new" way, just have to have a different mindset. BTW, the natural errection that started the entire episode last night never wavered from foreplay, through full IC, and then since I hadn't "finished", ended up with a good HJ. Stayed firm and full length the whole time, and then took a while to ebb away when it was all done. Felt like it had a good work out. None of this is boasting, I report it only to give hope to all men here, you never know what you will or won't get, or when it will or won't happen. I still have not used a pump, any ED drugs, or had any injections since my one nerve saved only open surgery 3 1/2 months ago. I never, ever thought this would be possible, but it really is happening with me. I wish I knew what the difference was, so that the knowledge of it could be passed around the table.

I play the Powerball faithfully 2x a week for years, never really win anything of worth so far, lol, but with this Post surgical ED, I feel I won a major prize so far. My hopes are for the good for each and every man here.

David in SC
Age 56, 56 at DX, PSA 7/7 5.8, 7/8 12.3
3rd Biopsy 9/8 Positive 7 of 7 cores pos, 40-90%, Gleason 7
Open RP surgery 11/14/8, Right nerves saved, 4 days hospital, staples out 11/24/8, 5th cath out on 1/19/9
Post-surgery Pathlogy Report:Gleason 3+4=7, pT2c, 42 grm, tumor 20%, Contained in capsular, clear margins, clear lymph nodes 
First PSA Post Surgery   2/9 .05
 
 


Bootheel
Regular Member


Date Joined Oct 2007
Total Posts : 300
   Posted 3/2/2009 5:10 PM (GMT -6)   
I have the same situation as Chas036. Maybe you should try switching to Cialis or Levitra to avoid the side effects. Just a thought.
Age 65
Diagnosed 10/12/07
PSA 6.3
Biopsy 18 core samples, 2 positive <5%
Stage T1a Gleason 6 (3+3)
LRP  1/29/08
Post-op
Gleason 7 (3+4)
1 positive margin (.3cm)
T2C
4/16/08- Started Bi-mix injections 
5/15/08- 1st Post-Op PSA 0.07 Undetectable
8/11/08 -2nd Post-OP PSA 0.02 Undetectable
8/15/08- No more pads as of today  Whoopee!!!
11/13/08- 3rd post-op PSA 0.02 Undetectable


Paul1959
Veteran Member


Date Joined Nov 2007
Total Posts : 597
   Posted 3/2/2009 8:13 PM (GMT -6)   
Just for knowledge for trivial pursuit. The Cowper's gland is located below the prostate, so in a normal surgery, it is not removed. That is the clear fluid. What most guys call precum is part cowper's fluid and part prostatic fluid. The prostatic fluid thinned down the cowper's fluid and it often is part of the male's lubricant. Of course after surgery, the thicker cowper's fluid may sometimes appear but not always. Many prostate patients discover that things are 'drier' after surgery and often need to introduce lube for intercourse. Those little drops of precum made a huge difference upon insertion and intercourse at keeping things smooth. Funny the side affects that show up!
Paul
46 at Diagnosis.
Father died of Pca 4/07 at 86.
1/06 PSA 3.15
1/07 PSA 4.6 (Biopsy 3/07 just suspicious)
10/07 PSA 5.06 (Biopsy 11/07 1 of 12 with 8% involvment) (1mm)
Da Vinci surgery Jan 5, '08 at Mt. Sinai Hosp. NYC www.roboticoncology.com
Saved both nerve bundles.
Path Report: Stage T2cNxMx
-Gleason (3+3)6
-totally contained to prostate,
-10% involvement in L & R Mid lobes
PSA 0 at nine months.
Pad free on March 14 - (10 weeks.) Never a problem since.
ED - Took 100mg viagra every night. for several months
Totally usable erections at 10 weeks, which disappeared over the course of a month or two.
ED bounce is what they call it. Now, at one year, ED is fine with viagra.
One year PSA - undectable!


Purgatory
Elite Member


Date Joined Oct 2008
Total Posts : 24259
   Posted 3/2/2009 8:32 PM (GMT -6)   
Paul, thanks for the additional info, obviously my cowper's were not removed, and if I had to make an educated guess, the amount of this fluid last night was much more then I remember from presurgery days, but again, I never thought of the pre-cum as being different than the regular ejaculate.

David
Age 56, 56 at DX, PSA 7/7 5.8, 7/8 12.3
3rd Biopsy 9/8 Positive 7 of 7 cores pos, 40-90%, Gleason 7
Open RP surgery 11/14/8, Right nerves saved, 4 days hospital, staples out 11/24/8, 5th cath out on 1/19/9
Post-surgery Pathlogy Report:Gleason 3+4=7, pT2c, 42 grm, tumor 20%, Contained in capsular, clear margins, clear lymph nodes 
First PSA Post Surgery   2/9 .05
 
 


justus1292
Regular Member


Date Joined Feb 2009
Total Posts : 63
   Posted 3/25/2009 1:39 PM (GMT -6)   
Pee befor sex, and during if necessary. devil
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