If you were like many of us and not able to get an erection without drugs and or injections, I would understand your lack of interest. I envy those of you who have recovered and have a natural erection. I am still interested and have intercourse about twice a week with the help of bi-mix injections. I miss the spontaneity and mess that use to go along with sex. Since you are a decade younger than me, I'm would hope things would get better for you.
I suspect that some of your lack of interst is a reaction to having to explain yourself to your sex partner. Unless you are in a monogamous relationship and have the continued support that it brings you ,as I remember, always need to prove yourself a little.That might cause you to question why you are even doing it. You are also getting to the age where some men start to slow down sexually. I know that I was much more active at 50 than I was at 60. I am still a very sexual person and despite the roadblocks, I 'keep doing it' because my wonderful wife enjoys it as much as I do.
I can't really answer your questions, but...I'm 7 months post RP, I have no problem on the libido side. Just that the toolbox is short on some hardware, only for now, I hope...
If you're getting that much wood, then maybe there's another medical question you should ask your docs.
Arnie,,thanks for your response. At least I know that I am not alone in this lack of libido. Like you, I also asked my uro for some testosterone supplements and she said that because pc feeds off of T, it would not be a good idea to do that, and being that my T was at 370, it was well within the normal range for a man of my age.
Someone previously asked if I get nocturnal or morning erections. The answer is big YES. Since about a year ago, almost every morning now I wake up with a rock solid erection. The one difference now is that as soon as I become aware of the erection as I wake up, it goes immediately flat.
Last night I tried a test. I took 100mg of viagra and started looking at naked women and P**n on the internet seeing I could get some sort of sexual desires. While watching the movies, I admired the beauty of the women, but with respect to feeling horny or having sexual desires, I felt absolutely nothing. I felt no urges what so ever for sex or desires to go out and try to meet women or even desires to self stimulate, I felt nothing in the way of any sexual urges. The only thing I was feeling was a lot of congestion and a flushed face from the viagara.
After watching the movies for about an hour, I decided to start with some self manual stimulation to see if that would jump start my desires. Well, I immediately got a super rock solid erection, and I mean rock solid , but I as to jump start my desires for sex, I had nothing, nol desires , nothing. This is what is so frustrating. . Like Arnie said, I think there is some hormone missing that is keeping me from getting these desires.
Post Edited (NY-Sooner) : 12/18/2009 7:40:05 AM (GMT-7)