Thor,
You should be okay on the ride home as long as you stop a couple of times to go to the bathroom. They took my catheter out about 5:30 AM the next morning and I was told to push the liquids. They will not release you until you have urinated a certain amount. You need to continue to push the liquids. Hopefully you will not end up with the cartheter irritation I have had which is a lot worse then when I had the catheter in for 13 days after my PCa surgery. Make sure you take a pain pill just before leaving and perhaps another along the way. It also helps if you can lean back. The passenger seat in our car would lean back almost all the way and this helped. If you wait another day the travel will just be worse on you as the swelling kicks in in the first 24 to 36 hours. Also, when they tell you to stay off of your feet for five days as much as possible do it. I had little pain laying down but sitting or standing was a challenge for the first three to four days. Today I can walk around okay and the swelling is way down and I have only taken a half a pain pill today so it gets better in a hurry. You will probably be kept in a surgical holding room the night of the surgery. You should ask for a regular hospital bed as they had me on a gurney until about 9:00 PM which I just could not get comfortable on. You may have a night nurse named Rosalie. She is great and trys to help as much as possible. The only thing I am a little disappointted about is I never saw or spoke to Dr. Milam. He did talk to my wife and they told me in the surgery room he was coming in to talk to me but the next thing I know I am waking up in recovery.
Good Luck!
Tamu
April '08 PSA 4.8 ("free PSA" 7.9), up from 3.5 year prior
June '08 had biopsy, 2 days later told results positive but in less than 1% of sample
Gleason's 3+3=6
Developed sepsis 2 days post-biopsy, seriously ill in hospital for 3 days
Dr. recommended robotic removal using da Vinci
Surgery 9/10/08
Northwestern Memorial Hospital, Chicago, IL
Dr. Robert Nadler, Urologist/Surgeon
Post-op Gleason's: 3+3, Tertiary 4
Margins: Free
Bladder & Urethral: Free
Seminal vesicles: Not involved
Lymphatic/Vascular Invasion: Not involved
Tumor: T2c; Location: Bilateral; Volume: 20%
Catheter: Removed 12-days after surgery
Incontinent: Yes (1/2 light pads per day)
Combination of Cialis and MUSE (alprostadil) three times weekly started 9-27-08
Returned to work 9-29-08 (18-19 days post-op)
PSA test result, post-op, 10/08: 0.0; 12/08: 0.0; 4/09: 0.0; 9/09: 0.0