Making Sure YOU have All Needed Documentation...POA.....Et All

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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/30/2008 7:28 AM (GMT -7)   
 Please after a couple of things I have seen members go thru and from what I am going thru right now with my step dad DO have all your eggs in a basket ..ducks in a row .ect
 
   KNOW who the Power of attorney is
 
   Know if there is a DNR...........( Do not Resuciatate) order on KARDEX and Chart
 
   Know the loved ones final wishes right to the very end .......
 
   Know where and if there is a will
 
** Make sure ALL documentation is legal ,binding and you have a good attorney ..
My dad was not supposed to be on life support ...his ONLY biological daughter ( I am not ) has gone and put him on it
I have looked after this man my father and for more than 10 yrs my Mom ( prior to her passing just over 2 yrs ago) until I was stricken with Pneumonia and had to place him in a hospital for his own protection and safety SO I thought
 
I am now fighting with her and I have lawyers helping me BUT this is all because here I am considered less of a daughter as I DO not have his blood running thru my veins........
JUST MY TOTAL HEART ........
 
Please I implore you .....there are those that WILL take advantage of your loved ones especially IF there is money estate involved .I am not trying to be rude not hurtful
JUST truthful
 
 Just a few words of advice from someone living a nightmare.....and regretting ever having let him out of my home .......and NOT making sure all my Ducks were in a LEGAL and BINDING row
Hurting so bad for Dad.....
God Bless
LYN 
  DX With Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum, Anxiety/ Panic and Other Disorders
 
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 7/3/2008 10:14 AM (GMT -7)   
I have JUST had to go thru all the bull of this

NOw I had to go to Probate Court
All they want is the material things which really rips me apart

MOM and Dad had beautiful and yes very expensive things like artwork, antiques, Royal Doulton, as well as much more BUT they NEVER had their noses in air and they would give the shirt of their backs to someone in need
I cannot for the life of me figure out why the siblings are this way
Mone and materila things
No real thougths of anything else from what I see

Why can they not just let the Souls of these 2 wonderful parents rest and be set free

LYN
  DX With Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,Fibro & Other DD
 
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   Posted 7/3/2008 10:47 AM (GMT -7)   
Because these people are greedy and selfish. I am so sorry you are still having to deal with this. You are a kind soul that doesn't deserve to be dragged thru the mud with this. I have no words of advice or wisdom but know that I am here for you as a friend. ((Lyn))
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 7/4/2008 9:31 AM (GMT -7)   
Thanks so much

You will never know how good that makes me feel Sherry

It is hard to deal with BUT I am doing it still......

Luvs and (((((( huggles)

LYN
  DX With Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,Fibro & Other DD
 
Moderator @ Anxiety Panic..Alzheimer's..Co mod @ Crohns
                               FIGHT the FIGHT with all YOU HAVE
         Be Well All and Stay With Us We are Here To Help
                               LYN 
   
 
                   
 


Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/17/2009 11:20 AM (GMT -7)   
TTT for newer members

LYN
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

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                                     LYN

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