Oh boy - give me patience!

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Red_34
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   Posted 4/3/2008 8:46 AM (GMT -7)   
It's gotten to a point where I just DREAD cloudy days because it makes gma so much more worse!  My family knows that when she has outbursts that it's not really HER talking but how come I feel so guilty - by guilty I mean having gma living here with us and putting my family thru the ringer?  I am adamant about not putting her in a home because she really is not that bad yet and I want her here with the ones she loves for as long as possible.  But her outbursts leave everyone reeling!  For instance, we were sitting down and watching a funny movie when all of a sudden she goes stomping off to her room.  I go in there to find out what was wrong and she thought everyone was laughing at her!  Everyone was asking what they did wrong and I have to keep reassuring them that it is not them. Also gma goes to bed early (6pm) and of course kids being kids, they will make noise.  They're really not that loud but gma will get up and slam her door repeatedly to get them to be quiet.  Ah it's nerve racking!
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 4/6/2008 1:55 PM (GMT -7)   
Hey my friend
Sorry I am slow at responding been really sick as has Cait
THIS is one of the other hard parts you have to live with when you make the decision to keep her with you
YOU are right it is NOT her it is the DD and I am so sorry she gets like this
IS she on a med that can mellow her out NOT drug her up but to make her more calm and not have some of the thoughts and feelings she is having....also help her sleep more easily and soudly when the kids are still up??
Please tell your kids they are FANTASTIC....it is so bleeding hard an I am so proud of you and your family ...I know how things can get sis and I do hope they KNOW it is nothing they have done ..........
All my best and I wil be on tomorrow ..Luvs
LYN
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Red_34
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   Posted 4/7/2008 4:51 AM (GMT -7)   
Lyn, I wasn't expecting a quick reply from you :) I know you and Cait's been ill. I hope things are getting better for you all there. My post was a bit of a rant because I was frustrated. I'm all better now :0D No, she's not on any medication but I was thinking of asking the doc for something soon. She has these bouts of depression too where she says she just wants to die and join gpa and just wants to give up. She goes in in 2 weeks for a skin biopsy - doc is thinking that a few spots on her face may be precancerous. So maybe I can ask him about it then.

Thanks Lyn and get better ya hear?! :)
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 4/7/2008 6:48 AM (GMT -7)   
Thanks am feeling TONS better than I was
Rant away I know how it can be
A good med for this is a calming benzo NOT imho ativan though anything really but it ...I think once she is on something you WILL see a drastic change in her it is scary for her too as you know .........

Again you have got great kids and tell them I said they are and they have a fantastic role model ..
Let me know how all goes will ya

God Bless
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