((((((((( Sherry )))))))))))))
I hear you sis. I used to leave notes for my dad. I'd write out a little note and he'd put it in his wallet and take it out and put it back and take it out and put it back. Sometimes, when he'd talk like your gma about
how long it had been . . . I'd just write out my name and phone number and tell him he could call me any time. And he did. I didn't even try to explain that I'd just been there. I'd answer the phone and sound REALLY excited and "HELLO!! I'M SO GLAD YOU CALLED!! HOW HAVE YOU BEEN??? I CAN'T WAIT TO VISIT YOU AGAIN!! WOULD MONDAY BE GOOD FOR YOU?" With that, you could just hear his smile. He could then enjoy thinking about
Monday . . . until he forgot again. LOL I know its really hard, but you are going to look back and think how good she's actually doing right now. . . so don't allow the frustration to use up your energy . . . turn it right back around into something positive. Deep in her spirit . . . she KNOWS you love her. You are doing a great thing for her.
Hugs, prayers, hot tea, and . .
In His Grip
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