Thank-you for your kind words, wiggyann. I never understood what my Dad saw in that woman to begin with. She is his second wife, he left my mother for her. Although my mother was no walk in the park either. Before he became so befuddled, a couple of years bback as he was finally waking up to the debt he incurred in his name, I teased him saying Dad, I did that getting married thing, once, it lasted five years, I never could nail the fellow down to get Divorce papers signed so I guess we're still legally married. That's OK because we have two children together and neither of us was interested in re-marrying. We're (in law only) coming up on our 23rd wedding aniversity this coming August.
Anyway, this is the second time she made such a remark, although the first time only I heard it, she said "he's not good for anything, anymore, I didn't respond, pretended I didn't hear her. She has a gambling addiction and that's all she's interested in, getting to the Casino. She says, once the weather warms up, I'm going to take her "just for a couple of hours. This is a woman with acute kidney failure, diabetes, and cannot walk. Shall I take her in a wheelbarrow?
Oter than that i just feel mildly depressed about Dad being in hospital, waiting to get a bed somewhere. I feel so bad. I'm also a tad nervous visiting him cause when he sees me, he thinks we're going home. He gets his hat and coat. I have to explain, we need to find a better place to live, and I will come take him there when we find it. Then I have to go saaying I have an appointment.