What would I do without mother :-)

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wiggyann
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   Posted 2/5/2009 10:05 PM (GMT -7)   
 
Hello Everyone,
 
Mother who is 85, has alzheimers and lives with my brother.
Not too long ago, he had  a set of keys made for me to their apartment. One is for the main door at the bottom of the steps.  A second and third is for the  dead bolt and regular lock on their apartment door. Well, today I stopped in to visit them.  I was able to unlock the bottom door, but could not get the two other keys to unlock the locks on their apartment door and my brother was not home. Finally, I
knocked and rang the bell. I heard mother say, "Who is it?" and I told her it was her daughter.  She had been asleep on the couch, but she got up and went to the front door and opened it. I was at the back door. I rang the bell again and knocked and told her where I was and she came into the kitchen and unlocked the deadbolt and the regular lock and let me in.  It made me wonder if maybe I need help more than mother does :-) 
 
Wiggyann

Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/1/2009 11:08 AM (GMT -7)   
Well I have to say your Mom did well for having this DD
They can still get ya cant they ..........lol

Be well my friend

LYN
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

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                                     LYN


Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/17/2009 10:38 AM (GMT -7)   
Wiggy
It will be just 3 yrs on the 20th that I lost my Mother
I know how much it pains and how much it hurts


There is no one as Special as you Momma

Luvs
LYN
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

Donate at  www.healingwell.com
 
                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........Co Moderator   @ Crohns                    
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or YOu Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/23/2009 2:53 PM (GMT -7)   
Bump
This is a very GOOD question ...........

Thanks Wiggy

Luvs
LYN
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

Donate at  www.healingwell.com
 
                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........Co Moderator   @ Crohns                    
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or YOu Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


wiggyann
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   Posted 3/24/2009 2:16 AM (GMT -7)   
Dear Lyn,
You must have gone through a lot with your mother. The way you wrote
about her lets me know that she was a very warm person and that you
had a very precious relationship with her. I don't think my mother and I were ever friends. She is just my mom. I love her very much, it's just that I didn't feel about her the way I do about my good friends. She has always been a very caring and giving person, and holds a very special place in my heart even though she doesn't know who I am sometimes. I'm happy that you and your mother were friends as well as mother and daughter. I will never know what that is like. I hope one day your pain will heal, Lyn and you will have peace and beautiful memories when you think of your mother. And know that all of the love she gave to you... will always live on in you.

Bless You, Dear One
Wiggyann

Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/24/2009 2:32 PM (GMT -7)   
Wiggy
'I am so thankful for your
'Luv n support thru all of this
This past bit has been rough for sure

I so miss her and her way of leting me know different things on how to deal with issues that come up( prior to being ill)

Mom and I were friends but she was always my Mom first and foremost
I always respected and revered her
Luvs
LYN
I know you love your Mom hun
I read it in your posts

Luvs
LYN
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

Donate at  www.healingwell.com
 
                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........Co Moderator   @ Crohns                    
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or YOu Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


Howlyncat
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Total Posts : 24909
   Posted 3/28/2009 8:33 AM (GMT -7)   
How are you my friend

LYN
Send me email will you
I have to talk to you

Luvs

LYN
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

Donate at  www.healingwell.com
 
                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........Co Moderator   @ Crohns                    
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or YOu Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


Howlyncat
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Date Joined Jan 2005
Total Posts : 24909
   Posted 3/28/2009 8:37 AM (GMT -7)   
.....Bella
What would you do w/o your Mother..........
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

Donate at  www.healingwell.com
 
                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........Co Moderator   @ Crohns                    
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or YOu Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN

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