..Are You The Type That Can Be A Caregiver...........????????????????

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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/28/2009 10:45 AM (GMT -6)   
...Do you have the patience
....Do you have the EMPATHY
......DO You want What is Best for your loved one /or not.......
 
Do you call them Names??
**If so remember they are in THERE and they do hear........**
 
There are those that cannot deal with the /all faucets of caregiving.....\
Are you one of those people
/Loved ones?????????
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/28/2009 10:47 AM (GMT -6)   
I have written MANY posts re: the aspects of all there is to this and I know I have given my heart to this forum
I will continue for a bit longer but I have to say I think the time has come where I have served my purpose here

TRY reading some of the threads.........
 
I am NOT flaming anyone .............

LYN


 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

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                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........Co Moderator   @ Crohns                    
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or YOu Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


lynnie771
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   Posted 3/28/2009 2:24 PM (GMT -6)   
i consider myself a good caregiver.... not perfect, but any mistakes i make are always because i want what is best for my partner.......i know i'm not dealing for an elderly parent as most are, but respect doesn't have an age limit and calling names or yelling is a plain and simple lack of respect in my eyes......the "golden rule" should always apply....
lyn i hope you reconsider your worth on this forum....i have learned alot from your posts......
lynnie

Red_34
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   Posted 3/28/2009 8:29 PM (GMT -6)   
Lyn, you have been there for me when I was dealing with my grandmother and you still are. I would sorely miss you if you were to leave. But if in the event you feel you must then know that my thoughts are with you.

Not everyone is meant to be a caregiver and when I knew that I just couldn't handle it anymore I knew that it was time to move my Gma out and give me a much needed rest you were there for me. Of course I never abused her, verbally or otherwise but I knew that I just couldn't handle it both mentally and physically anymore. You were there for me when I made that tough decision and helped much more then you can possibly know. Really, you shouldn't let one post upset you so. I know it's rough to read these things and not want to yell but we can not control the world - I know what it is that you are referring to. I couldn't get myself to respond because I was shocked.

If you feel the need to step away from HW, either permanently or temporarily I can take over the AZ forum for you if you wish. I don't know as much as you but I am willing to give it my best.
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/29/2009 9:20 AM (GMT -6)   

.......RED.........You are a great person and you are a great caregiver

Never doubt that

I am so glad I could be of help to you

YOU also helped me out in ways you dont even know....Luvs........LYN

 

 

  ***Lynnie

 

Yes hun you too

You are a good person and a wonderful example of what it takes to be a caregiver.....LYN


 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

Donate at  www.healingwell.com
 
                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or YOu Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


Howlyncat
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Date Joined Jan 2005
Total Posts : 24909
   Posted 3/29/2009 9:25 AM (GMT -6)   
.......I will clarify
 
This post /thread is for ONE person............
The rest of you are tops in all you do for those you love /care/ and so support
 
Love to all
God Bless
LYN
 
IF only we had a better world with a far better understanding of this DD and what it does.............
I KNOW you all DO
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

Donate at  www.healingwell.com
 
                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or YOu Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN

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