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Howlyncat
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   Posted 6/23/2006 6:28 AM (GMT -7)   
  I can still see her there, occupying her favorite spot, bursting with quiet industry, reflecting on things I knew littlle about. I understand now that everyone needs somewhere to go ....where dreams find wings,where lessons are absorbed,where tomorrows are considered and where innner peace is is possible. Now ,whenever I think of my Mother I cannot seperate her from that special place..........
      Her Garden ..........her flowers .......Her special Place......I miss you Mom.......
      Love forever and A day ........your daughter .....lyn 
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   Posted 6/25/2006 8:54 AM (GMT -7)   
.......I am sure others have really good memories of what you have done or do with parents or loved ones you care for ......God Bless...Lyn


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   Posted 6/25/2006 8:55 AM (GMT -7)   
Going fishing with my Dad ........I have fished with him since I was so small and I love doing it ....mostly catch and release ........Perch are running so it " Fishing Time " .........
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   Posted 8/26/2006 7:51 AM (GMT -7)   
Keeping Dad occupied with Yard sales and fishing took him to a pig roast last wknd ........
Having a hard time dealing with mom's death
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   Posted 9/24/2006 4:29 AM (GMT -7)   
It has been 7 months this past Wednesday when Mom went home to her Maker
I fight the tears everyday
I sit in the chair looking out my window seeing her house
I watch my Dad going so fast as well now
I know in my heart it wont be long
Cherish your parents even thru the squabbles .........they cannot come back and you cant ever say what you may have wanted to say before they are gone
This goes for any loved ones A rule of thumb in my house is this

Never go to Bed angry at one another (child / ren,spouse ect)
Never go a day w/o saying I love you and mean it not just mouth the words
Never leave the house w/o a kiss on the cheek /lips and say I love you ,have a great day
Never leave unfinshed business as it may end up being just that ...forgive n put behind you
Live each day with your loved ones as if it were
No one knows what tomorrow mat bring
CHERISH .....Love , laugh and respect one another always .........
Just my opinions and thoughts
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   Posted 10/22/2006 2:35 AM (GMT -7)   
Loving them no matter what kind of day they are having
Putting aside your illness to look after them
Giving them all of you all the time
Never showing that you can get frustrated too at times
Always love and Cherish them
For we know not when they will be taken from us


Just a thought
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   Posted 10/23/2006 5:31 AM (GMT -7)   
Mom
Yesterday we counted our Blessings
Yes believe me you were top one
We missed you at dinner
But we were able to thank Him
For letting us have you for all the yrs we did
Yes tears were shed but this time knowing that you are not in pain
Not for our Pain only
WE love and miss you so much
and No nothing fell on the floor

**an inside family joke all *
Love ya mom
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   Posted 3/27/2007 11:31 AM (GMT -7)   
Bringing forward for those that have lost a parent ...grandparent ......or any loved one to this Disease
I found it helpful to "talk" to Mom and hoping it may help others as well

Bless you all
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   Posted 4/1/2007 10:57 AM (GMT -7)   
Try putting it to words how you feel
I promise you it helped me out quite a bit
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   Posted 4/2/2007 7:51 AM (GMT -7)   
Thanks "mom" I needed to read that...
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   Posted 4/2/2007 4:04 PM (GMT -7)   
I am really glad you did
I do make some sense at times EH
Luvs and yes I am here for you
Mom out
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   Posted 4/3/2007 6:40 AM (GMT -7)   
You oddly make sense most of the time...to me atleast.
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   Posted 4/3/2007 10:46 AM (GMT -7)   
Lil One this Thursday when you go I promise that if you "talk" to him ......laugh about some memories cry about your missing him and just let all out what you are going thru everything
What he meant to you and how much you miss him
IT WILL help.......
You know I will be there for you in spirit for sure I loves ya as my own
Mom out .....BUT always here



Oddly make sense whats that mean ?? and dont give me the " just what it says " lol
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   Posted 4/4/2007 4:26 AM (GMT -7)   
It means even when you dont make sense to others you somehow make sense to me...its like the sane insane...an oxymoron lol
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   Posted 4/4/2007 10:40 AM (GMT -7)   
LOL okay gotcha
I am sure I do not make much sense to others
BUT they know not I like you do ........

Will call you in the am again k
Luvs ya
Mom out
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   Posted 4/13/2007 2:52 PM (GMT -7)   
Glad you read the poem you wrote and left it for your granpa
Very touching and meaningful will help you out in long run IMO

Love ya
Mom out
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   Posted 4/13/2007 3:18 PM (GMT -7)   
Thanks mom I hope so...
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   Posted 4/13/2007 7:25 PM (GMT -7)   
Have I ever steered ya wrong yet my Lil One ??

Have a good wknd with Paul and I hope things are kinda getting settled or straightened up

Howie is coming this wknd again..I believe he wants another reconciliation but I dont know if I am really ready ya know

I dont mind him coming to see Cait she does need him in her life as you know ........

Keep me posted on how things are and I will do the sam .here .....
Love ya sweetie so much
Mom out
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   Posted 4/17/2007 4:24 AM (GMT -7)   
still have alot to come to terms with here...Trying to take it little by little
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   Posted 4/18/2007 4:24 AM (GMT -7)   
I know hun I have been dealing with alot too and it is getting harder knowing your sis is leaving Saturday.........
Will try to be up and callu tomorrow am
Am going to market and then finish shopping for Caits things ......
Love ya
Mom out
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   Posted 4/18/2007 7:55 AM (GMT -7)   
*hugs*
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   Posted 4/18/2007 5:25 PM (GMT -7)   
Callin you about 9 or shortly after
Love ya
Mom out
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   Posted 5/1/2007 9:03 AM (GMT -7)   
sad  Mom today I am not feeling the best but I wanted to talk to you in my way ......
 
You would be so proud of your grandaughter she is in the same Legislation BLDG you were in and she is a Page
She cries wishing you were here to see what she is doing
BUT..........I told her you do see and you are on her shoulder as always guiding her and whispering your pride and love
 
That helps her Mom as it does me ........
 
I get so lonely when I cannot see you but I know you are around I sit and look at old pics and cry then laugh remembering the time it was taken .........
 
Loving you and missing you always
 
Your loving daughter n grandaugter .......Lyn and Cait
 
nono No there is no tears at times as I know you are all better and having a grand ole time up there with your maker ........
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