This year I am finding it just as hard to not have you here....your ashes are ready to be picked up BUT is it selfish of me NOT to want them for Mother's Day??
I dont want to remember all the rest of my mothers days with your ashes being given to me ya know
I have a firm belief it is not right nor fair for Cait either to have to have this hanging over us
After yes I want them with all my heart for some proper closure but not this weekend cannot do it ........
Am I being wrong here Mom ??
I dont think I am but I am not playing with a full deck lately dad is not well at all he and i both broke down on Wednesday after market when came home to calls and a letter from the cemetary
It has been a yr and months ( 15 months actually)
I keep asking myself
I wont have you and I wont have Cait nor Grammy even Rick is being made to go to Jens family's once again.......It hurts Mom I have no one here to celebrate with and I don like it at all ...
Just another day til Cait comes home following weekend ........
I wish I had done more and said more to you while you were still here theres so much left unsaid
Loving you always MOM
Your daughter .....and Grandaughter
Always remember to tell your loved ones daily what they mean to you ........
There will copme a time you will not be able to other than thru prayer n stars and thats ok but still it hurts when you cannot see nor hug them .
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Post Edited (Howlyncat) : 5/11/2007 5:05:58 AM (GMT-6)