When we have company over I talk to my hubby ahead of time and ask him to take care of certain duties that I am uncomfortable with such as pouring coffee less my shaking hands pour the coffee in their lap.
Also when I am trying to get dinner on the table I ask him to be sure to seat everyone and then help me dish up, he can put the platters of food on the table.
If my daughter is here I just ask her to be my kitchen help and she does. We have a small house so entertaining is tough. Everyone wants to stand around in the kitchen and dining area. No one will go down stairs to the family room.
My favorite kind of entertaining is to order Pizza or take people out for lunch.
Your not alone with your anxiety. Hugs to you.
Kitt, Moderator: Anxiety ~ Panic ~ Crohn's