Oh Deb, I'm so sorry that this guy is trying to make you feel guilty..it sounds like things have been going so well for you (yay for you!).
Percy is right, he is feeling hurt and rejected and he has decided to take that out on you. Humph! You did the right thing, the noble and caring thing, DO NOT let him make you feel guilty. I know you are a wonderful person and this just further demonstrates it.
Keep doing what you are doing, be assertive, firm and try not to let him guilt you out. Hopefully he will respect that and leave you alone. I'm so happy everything else is going well...one day at a time as you said, hope you are feeling better soon deb, you deserve the best.
We do miss you deb, and please don't let guilt get anywhere near you beautiful self.
This is Kitt and welcome to HealingWell. I have been following your post and the members have given you great advice. First of all you are not responsible for other peoples feelings. So please lose the guilt your feeling, you did not hurt him, in fact you were honest and up front with him. I have to admire you for that.
I am sorry for his pain but he needs to deal with it and continuing to contact you when you have asked him not to is inappropriate.
If you feel threatened by this person you can file a PPO (Personal Protection Order) with your local police department as Ray suggested.
Have you discussed all of this with your boyfriend? Keep posting and let us know how things are going for you.
We are here to help and support. Again a warm welcome.
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Dx: Agoraphobia, Anxiety/Panic Disorders, Barrett's Esophagus, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Essential Tremors, Fibromyalgia, I.B.S., Mitral Valve Prolapse, Narcolepsy, PTSD, Restless Leg Syndrome, Acid Reflux, Sleep Apnea
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Keep posting and lots of hugs to you.Kitt