Post Edited (harlan) : 6/20/2008 12:47:36 PM (GMT-6)
Well I am not here one day and look what happens, I missed the 1st inning. I know sometimes we post and we are down and looking for someone to help us. People here care about you and in order to give the best advice they can you will have members that will try to get you to make a decision as they are concerned that you will get hurt along with your husband thus the comments are sraight from the heart.
No one is judging you but perhaps just trying to put a different spin on the situation.
You know I am here for all of you.
I have been in your position and I did get into a big mess, so think this through and know we support you. Let me toss this question out for you to think about :)
Kitt, Moderator: Anxiety, Panic & Depression *~*
This person was an important part of your life even though you knew it was time limited and now life has changed again and he is gone. You wake up and you not sure what you are going to do each day to replace the time you spent on him. You have an empty feeling but please give yourself time and something will come along and take you empty feelings away.
One day you will wake up and realize you did not even think about him all day.
You say you love your husband. Try to rekindle the spark that was once there. Take a little trip to Victoria's Secret...........they have great perfumes. :)
Thinking of you.HugsKitt
You will not be judged here by me, or by most of us. Take onboard the advice and support you like and discard the rest. We are here to listen, support and share. Not to judge you. I hope that things calm down in your head soon. We all make mistakes, forgive yourself k? We are here to listen sweetie ((((((hugs)))) life isn't simple at all. I think you are being brave to share with us.