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harlan
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   Posted 6/20/2008 7:03 AM (GMT -7)   
Shouldn't have posted this - decided to delete it but couldn't so I just edited it.

Post Edited (harlan) : 6/20/2008 12:47:36 PM (GMT-6)


thirstyforchrist
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   Posted 6/20/2008 7:33 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey harlan, it's gonna be okay. You don't need a lecture right now. I think if you want to you can delete your post. There should be a little x in the right hand corner of your post. I deleted one of mine. Anyway, keep your head up and have a great day. Everyone makes mistakes and there is enough grace for all of them. you are not a bad person because you strayed. You are a human with feelings and emotioins and you are wonderful regardless of your mistakes. Hang in there. It's rough, this life, but we will get through this.
Love ya!
"There is hope for every man, a solid place where we can stand, in this dry in weary land, there is hope for every man... Jesus is hope for every man"  -Casting Crowns


jordaNZone
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   Posted 6/20/2008 7:34 AM (GMT -7)   
Life is all about choices..sometimes we make good ones and sometimes we make 'stink' ones eyes - and that's coz we are human and vulnerable at times..
I am wondering if counselling/therapy would help you get thru all this adjustment? You are gonna need lots of support and help if you want this to work - and getting this from someone neutral IMHO would help heaps.
 
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thirstyforchrist
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   Posted 6/20/2008 8:08 AM (GMT -7)   
Peg leg, I agree with it being very hard emotionaly and I understand where your coming from. It's a sensitive situation and all posative support is needed. She's going through the fire right now so I was just giving support, not trying to make you look mean or anything. Just wanted you to know that. I love peace and I want to keep it, especially here on HW where for most people it's there only source. Have a great day!
"There is hope for every man, a solid place where we can stand, in this dry in weary land, there is hope for every man... Jesus is hope for every man"  -Casting Crowns


percycat
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   Posted 6/20/2008 6:16 PM (GMT -7)   
Harlan,

I didn't see your post, but I remember from earlier this week that yesterday was supposed to be a significant day for you. Just wishing you strength, courage, and wisdom to get through a painful time.

Love,
percycat

thirstyforchrist
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   Posted 6/20/2008 9:45 PM (GMT -7)   
Are you okay Harlan? I haven't heard from you.
"There is hope for every man, a solid place where we can stand, in this dry in weary land, there is hope for every man... Jesus is hope for every man"  -Casting Crowns


stkitt
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   Posted 6/21/2008 7:39 AM (GMT -7)   

Dear Harlan,

Well I am not here one day and look what happens, I missed the 1st inning.  I know sometimes we post and we are down and looking for someone to help us.  People here care about you and in order to give the best advice they can you will have members that will try to get you to make a decision as they are concerned that you will get hurt along with your husband thus the comments are sraight from the heart.

No one is judging you but perhaps just trying to put a different spin on the situation.

You know I am here for all of you.

I have been in your position and I did get into a big mess, so think this through and know we support you. Let me toss this question out for you to think about :)

No one deliberately falls in love. And yes, I believe one can love 2 men at once. But are you sure you're in love and not just needing some romance and excitement in your life?
 
Thinking of you and sending  angels to watch over you.
Hugs
Kitt
 

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stkitt
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   Posted 6/21/2008 8:39 AM (GMT -7)   

Dear Harlan,

This person was an important part of your life even though you knew it was time limited and now life has changed again and he is gone.  You wake up and you not sure what you are going to do each day to replace the time you spent on him.  You have an empty feeling but please give yourself time and something will come along and take you empty feelings away.

One day you will wake up and realize you did not even think about him all day.

You say you love your husband. Try to rekindle the spark that was once there. :-) Take a little trip to Victoria's Secret...........they have great perfumes.  :)

Thinking of you.
Hugs
Kitt


 

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nervymeg
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   Posted 6/21/2008 7:06 PM (GMT -7)   

Harlan,

You will not be judged here by me, or by most of us. Take onboard the advice and support you like and discard the rest. We are here to listen, support and share. Not to judge you. I hope that things calm down in your head soon. We all make mistakes, forgive yourself k? We are here to listen sweetie ((((((hugs)))) life isn't simple at all. I think you are being brave to share with us.


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