toxic friends part two

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machelle
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   Posted 7/22/2008 11:17 AM (GMT -7)   
well i officially wrote her a letter to let her know how i felt i haven't talked to her in weeks, she will never take the blame for her actions, i am realizing how people like this make my life miserable, sometimes i think we all need a back bone to say how we feel but i never did till now, i classify a friend as someone your there for and so are they in a positive way, everybody has there days but they are always there. i feel she thought of me like a joke, i think she thought i can do whatever to her or let me see how far i can make her mad. i am going to make my life more positive as much as i can, i need too for my own health, i know all all of you are great friends and your so kind to lend a ear, even though your yourself is in a rough time, thats what is so great of all of you, i know i am going to have more to deal with more from her after she reads my letter but i feel a weight has been lifted.

stkitt
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   Posted 7/22/2008 11:49 AM (GMT -7)   

machalle,

She cannot make your life miserable unless you let her. I know from experience how easy that is to do when you trust someone but you have sent your letter and now I would sever ties completely with her if you want her out of your life.

Good job
Kitt


 

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percycat
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   Posted 7/22/2008 11:52 AM (GMT -7)   
Machelle,

You did put your backbone to use, and I'm glad you're feeling relieved now. That's a pretty clear sign that she was no good for you: when you feel better having her out of your life than as a friend.

We're all behind you. When she reacts to your letter, do please post for any support you need. I know that will be tough for you in the short run, but in the long run it's already clear to me that you'll be better off.

Hugs,
percycat

machelle
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Date Joined Jun 2007
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   Posted 7/22/2008 12:15 PM (GMT -7)   
i don't want nothing to do with her anymore, i always tried to find the good in her but she is self destructive and she wants everyone to go down with her. and make everyone around her feel bad about themselves, she put me down alot, i already have low self esteem i don't need her to take me down anymore

Post Edited (machelle) : 7/22/2008 3:25:21 PM (GMT-6)

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