First of all I may have missed it but I have no idea why you have an attorney and why you and he had a disagreement..............is this related to anxiety or Panic?
I am not sure what you are asking when you say "If ya'll were me what would ya'll do?He wants respect,so he's gonna respect me in turn!"
One thing about respect is you cannot demand it, it must be earned IMHO.
Sorry I can't be more helpful.
Kitt, Moderator: Anxiety/Panic & Depression& GERD Forums*~*
Post Edited (stkitt) : 8/8/2008 7:32:28 AM (GMT-6)
I hired an Attorney to prevent my late Father's Sister and a Sister in-law from finishing taking me on my Inheritance/Estate/Possessions.They left me with no other choice but to hire an Attorney.
We didn't have a disagreement he was just being a hateful little crap!What I meant when I said "If ya'll were me what would ya'll do is:Would ya'll call or e-mail him and express thoughts on his behavior and attitude.
After a bit of thought,I did email him.I told him,"Yesterday was a crappy Day and I was already in a foul mood (Miss Monthly arrived).After your attitude,I was so stressed that when I tried going outside the second time,I couldn't reach my destination,so had to come back in the House.I cried and cried because it made me feel I failed..I didn't fail..you know why?I MADE myself go back out..I'm a survivor!"
"You don't know the determination,strength,strong-will,bravery and courage I bring up from the deepest part of myself,yet you told me to grow up?Whatever!
Toward the end of the e-mail I told him,"I am a VERY blunt an straight forward Woman and Person.I have respected you,done what you asked of me and have worked very hard with the means I have to help you,but saw disrespect from you Yesterday."
Thank you for the clarification. I understand you were upset with his attitude. I would practice trying to be assertive at the time and not let the anger take over.
I know this is difficult as I will knee jerk too and then wish I had not reacted to a situation.
Good luck on getting your estate squared away.
Have a good day, and it is finally Friday.