Kitt asks for prayers and support on Tuesday 8/12

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stkitt
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   Posted 8/11/2008 4:52 PM (GMT -7)   
Dear Friends,
 
Tuesday 8/12 is the anniversary of my sons death from a car crash in 1990.  I know I will be ok but I always feel I am living this date in a flash back and to this day still do not know why it had to happen?
 
A prayer or support would be appreciated.
Hugs
Kitt
 

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   Posted 8/11/2008 6:02 PM (GMT -7)   
Kitt, my heart goes out to you.  You'll be in my thoughts tomorrow.  I'm so sorry.


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   Posted 8/11/2008 6:09 PM (GMT -7)   
kitt i can't imagine want you went through, its something a parent should never have to go through. you will see him again one day, sending you big hugs and best wishes my friend

love ya
machelle

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   Posted 8/11/2008 6:17 PM (GMT -7)   
((((((((((((Kitt)))))))))))
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   Posted 8/11/2008 7:04 PM (GMT -7)   

Kitt,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  Me and my family just got thru August 10th (the 6 year anniversary of my nephew's death).  Our little Sam was 4 years, 2 months and 12 days old when he died.  We got out the photo albums and remembered Sam and his time with us and all the special little moments we had with him.  It was a happy remembrance time for all.  We still miss him dearly but know he is zooming around heaven now doing all the things up there he never did here with us.  Hugs to you all.


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hana24
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   Posted 8/11/2008 7:19 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm sorry - anniversaries are hard. Every Feb I deal with a similar situation when my sister committed suicide. I still don't understand why she did it and it has been 4 years. I feel so bad but I also feel bad for my parents because losing a son or daughter also very hard and almost always very unexpected. I am so sorry that the memories come back but I know you will get through it.
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   Posted 8/11/2008 7:24 PM (GMT -7)   
I'll be thinking of you and saying a little prayer for you tomorrow.
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Marie-Claire
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   Posted 8/11/2008 8:23 PM (GMT -7)   
Dear Kitt... I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers ... I can't imagine what you went through.... I think losing a child is the absolute worse thing that can happen to a parent. I hope you can feel my arms around you tomorrow. May you finde some peace .
((((((((HUGS))))))))
Mary
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thirstyforchrist
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   Posted 8/11/2008 8:27 PM (GMT -7)   
Hey kitt,
Just know that I will be praying for you tonight and tommorow. I wish I could give you and your family huge hugs. You are a strong, brave woman. I cant imagine your pain. Take all the time you need and spend time with your family. I will be thinking of you. Love and many hugs.
Rachel
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   Posted 8/12/2008 8:18 AM (GMT -7)   
Big hugs kitt
 


Howlyncat
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   Posted 8/12/2008 8:40 AM (GMT -7)   
LIl sis
WE talked about this this am
I know how you feel as you know
Losing your son is not something that you can just put aside
It is out of the realm of what is right and wrong in
LIFE
We should not bury our children
But we have and so
I have told you to Celebrate his life
Remember all the good days you's had together
Live and know he would want it that way
Please put a flower there for me
Loving you always
Big sis
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stkitt
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   Posted 8/12/2008 9:26 AM (GMT -7)   

Thank you everyone..............I forgot to stay in the moment and all the bad of the accident came crashing in on me.  I am doing better and when my hubby gets home I will go out and buy those flowers and put them at the cemetery and tell him I am OK.  I am sure he is playing cards with my Dad or dancing up a storm as he loved to do both.

You are each very special and yes Big Sis I will place a flower for you too.  Thank you for listening to me this morning.

Hugs all around  blush

Kitt


Marie-Claire
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   Posted 8/12/2008 10:08 AM (GMT -7)   
Kitt... thinking of you today... Just wanted to tell you about something my girls and I did when we lost my son. The girls and I would buy a helium ballon , we would all write a little note to him and attach them to the cord... then we'd march over to the cemetary and just stay with him for a while. My girls were little so I would explain that their brother wasn't really there but rather somewhere much better and happier. It was hard for them to understand... but the balloon thing really made them feel better. They felt like they could "talk" to him somehow. we would release that balloon and watch go straight up to heaven.... always brought them a little peace .
Love you Kitt... my heart is with you today.
Mary
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curt31
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   Posted 8/12/2008 10:45 AM (GMT -7)   
kitt, my prayers go out to you. You are such a wonderful woman, who is caring and gives great advice and support. May God bless you and your family on this day. And don't worry your son is in heaven with God. One day you guys will be reunited. God bless curtis

percycat
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   Posted 8/12/2008 11:04 AM (GMT -7)   
Kitt,

I am surely thinking of you and praying for you today.

Love,
percycat

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   Posted 8/12/2008 11:46 AM (GMT -7)   
(((SKITT))) please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today. I pray God surrounds you with His love and peace today and everyday to come.

God Bless,
Gail *Nanners*
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   Posted 8/12/2008 1:34 PM (GMT -7)   
stkitt said...
Dear Friends,
 
Tuesday 8/12 is the anniversary of my sons death from a car crash in 1990.  I know I will be ok but I always feel I am living this date in a flash back and to this day still do not know why it had to happen?
 
A prayer or support would be appreciated.
Hugs
Kitt

You got it Kitt. You are in my prayers.
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   Posted 8/12/2008 2:40 PM (GMT -7)   
Kitt,

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today.

((((((((((KITT))))))))))

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stkitt
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   Posted 8/12/2008 5:00 PM (GMT -7)   

A sincere thank you to each of you for your support today.  How I wish I could meet you all in person.  :-)

My hubby and I took a dozen red roses to the cemetery and while we were there my hubby said, "I bet Todd would love the roses", that made me laugh as yes he was a 21 year old male but roses represent love so Todd had his dozen.

You are all amazing.  Without your support the day would have been much harder to get through.

Thank you from my heart.

Love,
Kitt


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   Posted 8/12/2008 6:11 PM (GMT -7)   

Sweet Kitt,

I'm sorry I wasn't able to send you the love and support you deserve on such a sad, sad day. Please accept my hugs today. You did amazing..I'm glad you could find the strength to laugh about the roses. You are such an inspiration.

Love,

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percycat
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   Posted 8/13/2008 9:39 AM (GMT -7)   
Kitt,

I'm so glad you have happy memories of Todd and were able to feel connected to him through the flowers. I know his spirit was right there with you.

Love,
percycat
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