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Marie-Claire
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   Posted 8/17/2008 10:21 AM (GMT -7)   
cry    Hello everyone... I would like to apologize to my HW family . If I have caused any of you anxiety, depression, mental anguish over this subject... I ask for your forgiveness. THis family means sooo much to me and the thought of possibly having caused any of you undue hurt , really shames me. You are all so caring and supportive . When I posted , I was only thinking of my own confusion and pain.... and NEVER stopped to think of other people's feelings... and what a sensitive subject this is. You are all so dear to me.
my email is posted in my profile... I welcome any of your input or comments... good or bad.. my heart is open to all of you .
Love and prayers
Mary
51 yr.old retired RN,Crohn's D for last35 yrs..severe esophagitis, migraines,strictures,urethral stricture,depression,probable MS.,RLS, arthritis, PTSD ,general anxiety disorder.
 
 


percycat
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   Posted 8/17/2008 11:34 AM (GMT -7)   
Mary, Sweetie, you just hang in there. Your family's situation is really hard right now, and you are definitely facing a tough fight with your anxiety about it. You have stepped up and done what you felt was right, and that must have taken a lot of courage, and a lot of priceless energy to overcome your hurt and worry about it. I think you have done all you can now, and I hope you'll be able to find some peace from knowing that.

I'm sending lots of love and hugs your way.

percycat

peacesoul
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   Posted 8/17/2008 2:58 PM (GMT -7)   
Marie-Claire said...
cry    Hello everyone... I would like to apologize to my HW family . If I have caused any of you anxiety, depression, mental anguish over this subject... I ask for your forgiveness. THis family means sooo much to me and the thought of possibly having caused any of you undue hurt , really shames me. You are all so caring and supportive . When I posted , I was only thinking of my own confusion and pain.... and NEVER stopped to think of other people's feelings... and what a sensitive subject this is. You are all so dear to me.
my email is posted in my profile... I welcome any of your input or comments... good or bad.. my heart is open to all of you .
Love and prayers
Mary

I know there are rules here at HW, but I do not think you have any reason to apologize. You've done nothing wrong. This site along wtih many self help sites on line are there to help and to allow people to express themselves.
 
I do not believe anyone in their right mind would have found your thread to cause anxiety/depression or mental anguish.

I will offer my thoughts and hope you do not get offended, since you're open to good and bad, I think you had no right to push your beliefs on your daughter's life. And to contact his parents was out of line. Also the video of an abortion was way out of line. Your pain over this situation is just that, your pain, not theirs.
Your behavior was very unkind. I think you owe your daughter and her husband the apology.
This is her life, not yours.

Personally, I am not against abortion. I've had an abortion and never regretted one second of it. I was in no position to take care of a child. I do not view a bunch of cells as a soul and I am also not religious. I'm not cold hearted or devalue life in any respect. I care about all living things.
 
I'm sorry if my comments hurt you, but i am not one to beat around the bush.
Reality and the hard truth like I am offerering you here is what got me over many humps in life.

I hope you accept my comments with all good intentions.
 
hugs and I hope you can deal with this
 
Jen

 


Moderator - Anxiety-panic forum
 
where we take it one panic attack at a time
 
 
 
The world breaks every one and afterward many are strong in the broken places

Post Edited (peacesoul) : 8/17/2008 4:28:49 PM (GMT-6)


closure
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   Posted 8/17/2008 3:21 PM (GMT -7)   
*hugs* no need for apology hon.
27 female
 
Bipolar, panic disorder, PTSD, PCOS, hashimoto's disease/hypothyroidism, acid reflux, and in the process of being diagnosed with either crohns, colitis, or even lupus...who knows really! the docs sure don't lol. Now possibly even celiacs disease!Lots of tests coming up so hopefully I'll know more soon. Too many meds to list!


stkitt
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   Posted 8/17/2008 5:28 PM (GMT -7)   

Mary,

I understand your anxiety and You do not have to apologize.  I do feel the topic is one that can get very emotional however I hope in my post you understood my message was one of love and support but also a reminder to the members that we have 13 year olds on board too. 

I am sending you Hugs as the Mother of four I understand you were acting out of distress and your own believes.  I truly do hope you and your daughter are both feeling better.

Hugs

Kitt


 

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nervymeg
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   Posted 8/17/2008 7:39 PM (GMT -7)   

Mary,

You don't need to apologise. Do I have to shout that?!!! You were looking for support, and things got a bit stirred up. You are carrying around enough distress and worries at the moment, you don't need to make it worse by adding guilt to the equation. I know you will do what you need to make things right with your daughter.

Hugs,

Meg


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Marie-Claire
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   Posted 8/18/2008 3:10 AM (GMT -7)   
Case closed everyone! Thank you for all your input.
Mary
51 yr.old retired RN,Crohn's D for last35 yrs..severe esophagitis, migraines,strictures,urethral stricture,depression,probable MS.,RLS, arthritis, PTSD ,general anxiety disorder.
 
 


stkitt
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   Posted 8/18/2008 4:11 AM (GMT -7)   

Mary,

Thank you and hugs to you.

Kitt


 

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