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stkitt
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   Posted 9/6/2008 10:09 AM (GMT -7)   
Dear Megs,
Hello sweetie,  I feel you are in a dark place and you are our special needs person today.
Let us help you get to a better place.  You know even Mods need help and here we are.

Depression can be like a tremendous weight, keeping you down so you don't want to function. Sometimes, it's a constant battle with oneself to get up, get ready and get dressed every day. Life has a way of piling stuff on us, and it is our job to un-freeze our bodies and keep going during even the most difficult of times. Don't give up on yourself for having depression, it is possible to increase your energy and drive. It just takes finding out what solutions work best for you specifically.

 Don't overanalyze or judge situations that upset you. Minimize the drama in your life.

It is best to limit your exposure to people who consistently bring you down or stress you out. Take situations and problems at face value. Don't read into them, just accept the reality of each issue as you experience it.

I am a great believer in staying in the moment, Meg, which I learned in therapy. Making ourself miserable is how we tend to spend a lot of time in the past or the future. We spend much time thinking about what was and what could have been. And we spend much time projecting into the future and wondering about what may happen.

This way of thinking is indeed a great way to make much of your life a lot more miserable and limited than necessary. The key to solving this problem is of course to live as much as you can in the only moment that you ever really live in and control. This moment right now.

Focus on what’s right in front of you, push all other thoughts out of your mind.

You can make it my sweet Megs,  just know we are all here holding you up.  Your one of us and that is pretty awesome.

Lots of hugs and pizzas

Kitt


 

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percycat
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   Posted 9/6/2008 10:41 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey, Meg, we are here and bringing tons of love and good thoughts with us!

The day's perfect for flying carpets that soar up above our troubles and fears. Take our hands and hop on - we'll hold you up and never let you fall.

Love,
percycat

Nanners
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   Posted 9/6/2008 10:52 AM (GMT -7)   
Hey Meg we are here for you. Please know that we love you and I am keeping you in my prayers. As Kitt is so fond of saying "No stinkin' thinkin allowed".
Been living with Crohn's Disease for 32 years.  Currently on Asacol, Prilosec 60 mg, Estrace, Prinivil, Diltiazem, Percoset prn for pain and Calcium.  Resections in 2002 and 2005.  Recently diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and doing tests to see if I have Inflammatory Arthritis or AS.


Marie-Claire
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   Posted 9/6/2008 11:49 AM (GMT -7)   
Sweet Meg... Oh honey, how I wish I could come over and give you a great big hug. Make you a warm cup of tea or coffee... take you out for a shor walk maybe.
You are in my thoughts , my heart and my prayers dear Meg.

I know your struggles , as I'm sure all of us do... but you are a formidable woman... and you WILL get past it. !
Blessings.
Mary
51 yr.old retired RN,Crohn's D for last35 yrs..severe esophagitis, migraines,strictures,urethral stricture,depression,probable MS.,RLS, arthritis, PTSD ,general anxiety disorder.
 
 


Junebug05
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   Posted 9/6/2008 8:06 PM (GMT -7)   
Just wanted to send you some love Meg.  I hope you know that we are all here to support you now.  If there is anything I can do to help, please let me know.  Hugs for you!

nervymeg
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   Posted 9/7/2008 12:17 AM (GMT -7)   

***sweet people***

Your kind, supportive and strong words are just what I need. I'm just not coping well now and I do not want to pull you, my sweet friends, into it. Forgive me, know I love and value you all.

Meg


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stkitt
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   Posted 9/7/2008 7:29 AM (GMT -7)   

Dear Megs,

We do not need to know what has triggered that black dog that is chasing you. Do you want me to call the pest control to pick up that dog? idea

I want you to know it is ok to give yourself permision to take care of you and never feel guilty for not being able to be online, guilt is a wasted emotion.

You are a very special and caring person and I support you 100%.

Sweet Hugs and prayers to you.

Kitt


 

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nervymeg
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   Posted 9/7/2008 7:28 PM (GMT -7)   

Kitt,

Yes can you please come and pick up this dang black dog. It's shedding all over the carpet and scaring my cats!! I'm feeling a bit better today and I'm off the pain meds that were making me feel so dopey. I'd rather have the pain. Thank you all again for your kind words. I don't know what I would do without your support

eyes

Love,

Meg


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percycat
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   Posted 9/7/2008 8:13 PM (GMT -7)   
Meg,

I'm so glad you're doing a bit better. Take it easy on yourself and give those sweet kitties a hug!

percycat

stkitt
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   Posted 9/8/2008 9:00 AM (GMT -7)   

Good Morning Megs,

Glad to hear you are doing better and I have been worrying about you.  I have so many to worry about but I have plenty of room for all.

You just concentrate on getting back on your good track and I think I just saw that big blck dog run past my house.............so I think you are safe now.

Hugs to you sweetie,

Kitt


Howlyncat
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   Posted 9/24/2008 5:53 AM (GMT -7)   
turn  My Swet Megs..........S.I.S.
Just checking back posts and I saw this
So sorry I was not around but you
Of all know you are loved and thought
of very highly by all of us
 
Dont let them dang blasted demons
chase you baby
YOU have the KAHOONAS to
beat this and we KNOW you will
 
I am here and I will be here
Have puter moved up to living room
Makes it easier to get to it
 
One Day At A Time ..........my S.I.S. and you will get there
I PROMISE you that
As long as you are working at it
YOU will acheive it and
I for one am so PROUD of you
yeah  All my luv and all my bestest.......S.I.S.
 
  DX With Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,Fibro & Other DD
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                                    FIGHT the FIGHT with all YOU HAVE
               Look For The GOOD,Even At Your Lowest
 
     Listen To Your Heart,Look Inside Yourself,Understand You
 
 
 
                    


stkitt
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   Posted 9/24/2008 9:20 AM (GMT -7)   

Hey Megs,

I miss your emails, but I know you are trying and you will be back when you can.

We love your sweet and witty posts.  You are always encouraging to all.So now you take back some help for yourself.

Please take care of you and if I could fly to see you...........oh wait, we are faeries, we can fly and meet each other somewhere way up there and dance among the stars.

Loving you

Your Kitt


 

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percycat
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   Posted 9/24/2008 4:03 PM (GMT -7)   
Faeries for Meg, carrying loads of chocolate no-bake oatmeal cookies (see my phobia post) - Yum!

I'll make a special big batch for you, sweet friend!

percycat

stkitt
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   Posted 9/25/2008 1:42 AM (GMT -7)   

Hey My Megs,

I am up in the middle of the night, could not sleep well in the hospital bed matress they set up for me by my sisters bed.

I am praying for you my sweet Megs.

Take care of you.

Love
Kitt


machelle
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   Posted 9/25/2008 11:03 AM (GMT -7)   
i got rid of most of the poison people in my life and i am doing so much better, i didn't realize how much they brought me down its hard to let go but boy its a large weight lifted. my family can be that way too i try to distance them as much as i can, i hope you get better, and you have a better day. big hugs from me to u

nervymeg
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   Posted 9/25/2008 8:25 PM (GMT -7)   

Thanks to one and all of my wonderful HW family for your concern..

I will gladly and graciously accept all offers of hugs, cookies, pizza, pest control and back up faery dust. You are all so sweet.

Kitt....may I send you a mattress as light as a cloud to float you off to sleep so you can dance in the stars with me. (((((hugs)))))

Lyn, yes I have the kahoonas, I'm fighting like a trooper (or do they swear?!) I forget, but your words always make me feel special, thank you.

Love,

Meg, megs, lil s.i.s.


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stkitt
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   Posted 9/26/2008 3:49 AM (GMT -7)   

Megs

It is swear like a sailor I think. smilewinkgrin But if that would help by all means do it sweetie.

Yes let us dance among the clouds and may I have a cookie?

You simply quite wonderful and I am so glad to see you back and hoping you know you are loved.

Hugs

Kitt


nervymeg
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   Posted 9/26/2008 6:09 PM (GMT -7)   

Sweet Kitt,

Ahh, swear like a sailor, so what does the trooper do?! I must stop mixing my metaphors confused

Yes, I will share the lovely cookies supplied by percycat. What a wizz she is!! We will dance in the stars and forget our worries for a while.

Thank you so much for your beautiful, caring words.

I managed to eat some soup yesterday (pats herself on the back) so the anxiety must be slowly going down.. eyes

Love ya,

Megs


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Panic Attack Survivor
Weekend Warrior Princess
 


percycat
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   Posted 9/27/2008 8:13 PM (GMT -7)   
Meg,

I'm glad you're making that uphill climb to the stars where you belong. Your thoughtful support is one of the best things about this forum.

Love,
percycat

Howlyncat
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   Posted 9/28/2008 7:44 AM (GMT -7)   
Keep up the fight baby
WE are all with you
I KNOW how hard it can be ............

BUT I and many others know how STRONG you CAN be when need arises

Luvs
S.I.S.
  DX With Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,Fibro & Other DD
                                    Donate at  www.healingwell.com
 
Moderator @ Alzheimer's,Co Mod @ Anxiety/ Panic,Co Mod @ Crohns 
 
                                    FIGHT the FIGHT with all YOU HAVE
               Look For The GOOD,Even At Your Lowest
 
     Listen To Your Heart,Look Inside Yourself,Understand You
 
 
 
                    

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