Me thinks you may be having some anticipatory anxiety ........
Yes it is a big step but you did not go in blind right and I know that once you get settled and get to know his ways and all your ways ( him) things will or should be okay
There is alot of anxiety in moving to begin with and then when you were independant all that time and now you are in his house that is going to cause more
DID you both talk about
this as it was going to be YOUR house and HIS........
You cannot feel like an intruder and you know a/p er's thats what will happen if you dont calm yourself a bit take a big breath in and know ITS going to be okay IMHO
You are sounding both tired yet excited about
remodelling that house and I bet once ya get the dust out and have a space for your clothes and make the "YOU" area you will feel more at home honey
Yes you are having a touch of cold feet too anyone that does this would and rightly so .........IMHO
Ya know Howie is gone all the time and now I feel he is and he feels he is an intruder in own home
BUT thats because I deal with all that goes on here
AS you said you's did talk about
this and I can tell you are a wee bit excited lol........
Let the pennies drop.........IT will all work out sweety
keep posting daily if you want and keep us up in how things are going .........
I wish you and him all the best in your relationship and HOME.........
Hey maybe have a housewarming party for both your friends ( yours /his ).....a get to know .....
Once you have calmed and settled in of course.......
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Post Edited (Howlyncat) : 11/24/2008 5:15:53 PM (GMT-7)